if you are ask to sing or dance which do you prefer to do?
By joshboz
@joshboz (1209)
Australia
September 26, 2007 7:35am CST
im a extremely shy person and when this question is asked to me i always answer back neither but if the show must go on and everybody is expecting me to do one of these id rather choose to sing. im not good in body movements because i have a rigid body i cannot sway it that much because my body is near obese that means im little bit fat.that's why i cannot dance nor plan to dance in any given day. im not saying that im not good in singing but i love to hear and sing some song and i dont care if it pleasant to here for others but i love to do it.so atleast i ahve a confidence to sing so i prefer singing although im not expecting they will love my voice at all.how about you would you prefer singing or dancing if ever you really need to do it?
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17 responses
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
27 Sep 07
If you ask me, I won't choose between singing and dancing because I don't like them both., But as far as I am capable with, I'd rather dance than sing. I sing bad and I'm definitely not a good singer at all. I can dance, though not that good as those dancers and performers..But atleast I can sway, rock my body and shake my hips.. Lol.. Yeah really. Singing is one of the biggest fears in life. I'm not that shy but I just hate singing! Best of luck to you!
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@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
28 Sep 07
hi meeming? what your real first name? may i know? if not then its okay ill just call you meem. you know what your the only respondent who hate singing here and prefer dancing. you should not fear singing because singing is just talking but with tune and melody noly.is that really hard to do?whats hard to do is sway your body to every directions jsut like in dancing.im also a etremely shy person like you but i can never dance in front of many audience.no way jose! but thank you very much for an honest opinion adn you will be rewarded for a positive mark for it. thanks for responding.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
26 Sep 07
It depends on the situation. If it is one that many people are dancing at the ball, then I don't care about dancing for them, but I need a partner to dance together me. I am happy to dance. If I must sing, then I need to sing a song that I am familiar with. I also need to read the words while singing the song because I cannot remember the words, without words I can not sing at all because I seldom sing. But it is ok if it is karaoke with words on the TV screen.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
28 Sep 07
i admire you because you are a flewxible one my friend. you can adopt to singing or dancing. i think your personality is bring it on! i do sing alone at home and we have a karaoke which i used to polish my voice. as for dancing, id rather not do it but if i have a partner and its just a slow moving dance then im on it its worth trying it. thanks for resonding.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Oct 07
I love to sing, but the trouble is, that I do not know that much by heart, but if it were in front of me, the words and music that is, I can really sing. I am a soprano but I am not that good at singing low, so it has to be classical, sacred music or opera.
I am desperately hoping that I will be able to sing a solo at our Church concert, but now with us traveling a bit, I doubt I will have the time and besides I might have to buy the sheet music and I do not have the money. Downloading it does not count. The pianist has to buy a sheet and I have to buy a sheet so that we can record it on the CD we use for the concert and can put it on the internet ==something about copyrights. I do have a very good voice. What you should do is to get a voice recorder, or record it on the computer and listen.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
3 Oct 07
hi suspenseful. wow atleast you admit to me that your voice is very good and i hope your wish of singing alone in your church will come true. just believe in your self. about the sheet, try to earn more here in come so that you can buy the original, the recording plan to be post here in the internet can be a source of money. try to record and give it to you tube, i think you can make money there by this way. anyway, thanks for responding.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
29 Sep 07
Seeing my body size, I do not think anybody will take risk of asking me to dance. It is like this. Paying one cent for crying and two cents for stopping crying. So, in the interests of the people and the earth, I will prefer to sing. My voice is good and I can sing, so no problem in that regard.
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
If I have to choose between the two, I prefer to just sing. I'm not really good when it comes to dancing, well, except when I have to dance with my 4 year old son!lol
I'm more into singing and I guess I won't embarass myself that much in front of others.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
3 Oct 07
yes i feel the same way you fell my firned. i love more singing than dancing becasue when i sing im jut talking but with tune and melody.i can never do dancing especially alone in front of many viewers becasue im ashyp erson as well im not born to perform in stage.thanks for responding.
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@fudong882000 (13)
• China
29 Sep 07
I am not good singing and dancing .So it is difficult for me to choose .If I have to do that ,I will choose to sing a song .Even though I don't sing well , I have no choice .
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
3 Oct 07
hi fudong. we are the same but i also prefer to sing more than dancing. its because singing is just like talking but with tune and melody unlike danicng in which you must have step to follow. singing is more easy to do also that's why i love it more than dancing.thanks for responding.
@ElusiveButterfly (45939)
• United States
26 Sep 07
I will sing my heart out if prompted to do so. But, it takes me a while to warm up. Sometimes a long time. The only time you can hear me sing on request is at Christmas. I will belt out a carol at the drop of a hand.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
28 Sep 07
hahaha.yes christmas is a good event were most people sing because songs they sing are either christian songs or carol or melodic songs. yes singing requires your heart to be with you especially when you are singing alone in thew crowd.its wonderful that we choose singing or dancing than choosing none at all. thanks for responding.
@chikkadee (372)
• Australia
27 Sep 07
Just because someone is fat doesn't mean they cant dance. Look at hairspray! Its all about confidence and enthusiasm. If you like what you are doing, you are going to enjoy it and other people will see that :)
Stick with what you are more confident with, and do it with all your body (whether it be singing or dancing). People respond to enthusiasm with enthusiasm :)
I like doing both ;)
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
2 Oct 07
yes friend i get your point i have other problems too like my feet are both lefties and i cannot do the sway thing yes i saw many fat people dance and most of the time they are funny to watch but atleast he/she have the guts to continue dancing because of enthusiasm. im sorry these guys are more bolder than me when it comes to dancing but i could sing rather than to dance.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
3 Oct 07
wow at least you are a performer for both. i admire you for being one. icannot really dance my friend and that's why even im not a good singer i feel more comfortable to sing rather than to dance at all. altohugh, i love watching people dance, i will continue to be a fan or part of the audience in dancing performances. thanks for responding.
@mestr12 (226)
• Philippines
27 Sep 07
I prefer to dance. Although I can carry a tune but I'm not gifted with a nice singing voice. I do sing in the shower but that's all there is. LOL. I have no qualms in dancing as long as I dance with a group. Besides, dancing makes me lose some weight. It is a form of exercise for me. :)
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
3 Oct 07
hi mestr its good to hear that you can dance and you are more confident with it. its just too bad for me because it does not apply to me. yes i also do sing a lot when im in the shower, its where and its the only time i could refine my voive every morning. good ay to you and thanks for responding.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
3 Oct 07
hi friend. at least you have a band becasue its good to sing having them. its good also you can do both unlike me i can only do singing. im not a good singer but atleast i am more comfortable with it. i love acoustic alternative and mild rock songs.thanks for responding.
@marylouu69 (297)
• United States
27 Sep 07
I would say sing, because it sounds like you are more comfortable with singing than dancing so who cares if they like the song you sing just enjoy, have fun.
@Nlearning (63)
• China
27 Sep 07
If i have to make a choose between them.I think singing is much better choose.I have no talent with both sing and dance.But i'm more interesting in singing,i always sing with my close friends who don't care whether the song is pleasing to the ear. I'm shy when i face the strange man,singing likes much more difficult at this moment.I hope they will love my singing if i really need to do it.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
3 Oct 07
hi friend i also prefer singing. i dont know i am more comfortable with it becasue its just similar to talking but with tunes and melody. in dancing, you must follow steps and coordination and usually you need someone to dance with. in singing, you can do it alone or with somebody else so no worries.thanksfor responding.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
3 Oct 07
hi ericha you have choosen the more easy thing to do between singing and danicng. be more confident in snging becasue its just like talking but with tune and melody and besides people will never care what type of song will sing. try to sharpen a voice by just singing when you are in the shower,alone or if you just want to do it. thanks for responding
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
If I'm asked to do something to entertain the crowd, I'd rather sing than dance. I don't have a talent for dancing, but I was once a dancer during my younger days. Somehow, influences took turns in my becoming of a singer. I have a passion for music, that I even obligated myself to learn how to play guitar. I am also not that good as a singer, but I sure can sing songs in which I know are my forte..
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
28 Sep 07
yes we are similar raijin. we have the same personality my pfriend id rather sing too rather than dance especially if its modern dance or rnb. sorry cant do it. i know also how to play guitar and my confidence is in singing although im not sure with the quality of my voice friend.thanks for responding.
@candiec2005 (828)
• United States
26 Sep 07
I'm actually a good singer and dancer. :) However, I am shy too. If I had to choose, I would also rather sing than dance. I think there's more talent in singing than in dancing. I don't know why.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
28 Sep 07
because in singing your voice will do the action you wont do more than that just like in dancing. singing is better just like in the american idol. besides why there are no american idol for dancing have you wonder? because singing again is better than dancing.singing can be done in many ways.yes we all love to sing. thanks for responding.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
28 Sep 07
yes your right singing makes you less nervous than dancing because you can even close your eyes while singing if you are really extremely shy.its easier i think because your voice will only do the thing.its similar to talking but only we put some melody on it.that's all. yes we all love to sing if its needed.thanks for responding.
