Courage

Pakistan
September 26, 2007 11:23am CST
Basically am a straight person.but when there is matter of refusing someone ther I get stucked.I cant say no to any body.I don knw y.Can somebody heop me on this issue
2 responses
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Nice people usually can't say no, they're afraid of letting people down, but you have to realize you can't do everything, you have to learn to stand up for yourself and say no.
@reeseyj (906)
• United States
26 Sep 07
I understand. I was the same way. Its usually because your insecure and your afraid people wont like u. Theres always someone thats not going to like u and if you never say no they wont respect you anyway. Me, I'd rather have respect. If they dont like it when u say no then they shouldnt be there. Good luck p.s once u say no you will free with less stress and maybe impowered.