do you think you are charming?
@exclusively_rinku (891)
India
September 26, 2007 3:11pm CST
hello mylotters!!!^^^
its for everybody here in mylot and my friends.do you think you are irresistable?do you get comfortable with all around you or sometimes you get tounge-tied?
it all depends on your personality that is introvert or extrovert and how you interact with others.sometimes some people get shy when they meet new people but then when they overcome that uneasyness,then become comfortable.and there are certain people who can make you comfortable in their company in the very first meet and attract you towards them.in short they are called real charmers.
so my question is what do you consider yourself-charming or not?
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@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
27 Sep 07
hey sampip i think we are the same.i have the same attitude towards people whom i meet for the first time.i got to know the person very well before getting friendly with him/her.but i think that is not a bad habit.infact we are very much sensitive persons and don't want to get hurt by anybody,so we don't allow everybody to come near us.thats a good quality sampip.you should stick to it.
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@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
27 Sep 07
I'm a shy person and sometimes I get tongue-tied. I'm definitely not a charmer he he he he...but I've met some real charmers in my life. I LOVE meeting those people 'coz then I can talk to them about anything and they don't make me feel awkward at all. They're really awesome! ;-D
@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
27 Sep 07
even i am a shy person ailema4ever.but i have never got tongue-tied.but i agree with you that real charmers won't make you feel awkward in their company.
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@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
27 Sep 07
thats nice to know balasri.and you know its a gift because you make somebody laugh and feel good in your company.
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@franziska (410)
• Italy
5 Oct 07
My friends say I'm charming but I really don't understand why. It's something natural, not constructed anyway.
Charm for me is an explosive mix of exteriority, movement, voice, energy, ability in talking.But I think that this definition is different for everyone so it's difficult to understand what attracts towards the same person many other persons.
@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
9 Oct 07
very well said franziska.i also feel that it is something natural and inherent.there are many things that can attract somebody and it varies from person to person.
@alamode (3071)
• United States
26 Sep 07
I was decidedly not charming, and had spent most of my life being introverted and afraid of people... until one day I decided that I was the same as everyone else, that I had a right to speak honestly, and that I had things to say that might be amusing or helpful to people! I believe I was about 30 years old, and since then I haven't felt uncomfortable around even strangers, for the most part... although you'll meet someone here and there who kind of gives you a creepy feeling...
So what do YOU think? I can't decide if that qualifies as 'charming'!
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@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
27 Sep 07
that would be considered as charming i think.sometimes we change ourselves to some extent when we approach certain age or you can say we get changed.as for you i think you saw a whole lot of world and people around you and that made you start thinking differently.even if you are not a real charmer but from your words i think you are much easygoing with people.
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
27 Sep 07
My mother said i am beautiful. lol But i don't think I am really beautiful or charming because I am only plain looking. Maybe if I already consulted science about it, then I could be charming. lol Rerally, I am not but it is okay because I have other possessions that are assets to me.
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@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
27 Sep 07
hey don't think that being beautiful is everything.there are a lot of other things that can attract you to anybody.and for a person to be charming,being beautiful is not the criteria.i think your mother is right.you are beautiful but in your own unique style.and don't forget you have other assets too.
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@Zmugzy (773)
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27 Sep 07
I regard myself as a very charming person. If only you could meet me - I am sure that you would be overwhelmed by my charming personality. In fact, I like to spend the weekends visiting shopping centres and supermarkets where I wander amongst the aisles and try to charm all the elegant lady shoppers as they browse amongst the tins of beans and tomato ketchup.
@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
27 Sep 07
hello dbhattji i think you have it.otherwise people won't turn up for you.
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@CyberSpic (30)
• Macedonia
26 Sep 07
yes i am sure i'm charming
i know it when i look at the mirror :P
btw its important to e satisfied with your personality and look
so u can be positive in life
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@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
27 Sep 07
hmmmmm cyberSpic it seems you are very much confident.just keep it up.
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