What is your standard in searching for and selecting your partner?

@michecu (637)
Philippines
September 26, 2007 10:18pm CST
WE all have standards that we are looking for in our partners (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, and wife). For me, I'd like my partner to be understanding and open-minded. I'm quite free-spirited and independent so I want him to understand that he couldn't demand so much of my time and that he shouldn't think that he possesses me. I want him to understand that I do not have to consult him every time I make decisions for myself. I also want him to trust me completely because even though I couldn't give him everything he needs, I'm certain that I will give him my total loyalty and I'm sincere all through out the relationship. My man shouldn't be the jealous type since I am not the jealous type too. These are the most important traits that my man must have. How about you? :)
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 07
I am a man. I chose a girl who is inner beauty rather than physically born or wear a mask of beauty to attract man, but had no feeling in me, and only my money. I'm one of my a bit wealth family in my community. And I found that if I show off, I never found that lucky woman. Most of them are just chasing my wallets, and worst even their parents. Yikes, disgusting. I try to redeem and stay low, found a woman who is a bit far from my environment, a homely, and understanding, and their parents is not talking about wealth stuff to me. She and her family had earn my respect. When I saw her inner beauty, it's glows to shine her physically.
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@michecu (637)
• Philippines
27 Sep 07
Wow!!! It's so kind of you...not all men would look at the inner beauty first. Some they don't mind girls who are only there for their money as long as they are sexy and pretty and can be "trophies"...but I don't think that kind of set up will last. It's very rare to find men like you. Your girl is very lucky so i hope she wouldn't take you for granted. :)
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 07
thank you for the compliment. May you find the man of your dream. God Bless You.
• United States
27 Sep 07
I want/have a man that is mellow and layed back like me.