If people misunderstand you,what will you do?slight or angry
By mari123
@mari123 (1861)
China
September 27, 2007 9:36am CST
If people misunderstand you, do you feel you have been slighted and have an angry outburst by shouting and screaming?
Or do you walk away from the scene but remain bitter about it for a long time and hold grudges forever?
2 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
30 Sep 07
To be misundertood is not pleasant at all, but how to deal with it is a great learning.
Well, if I am misunderstood by people, I would not get angry, nor would I remain bitter about it for a long time and hold grudges forever. I would deal with it positively by letting him know about the true facts about the matter so that he can understand it better and get me right. Usually I can succeed this way. I am happy for the way that I deal with my being misunderstood.
Of course, different people have different ways to deal with different misunderstanding. I just use my own way anyhow. lol
@subin_loyolite (262)
• India
27 Sep 07
Well, this situation has to be handled quite carefully.....I guess shouting or screaming will only worsen the situation.....We have to think before we act..
The best way to react is to remain silent.....Listen to what all they tell and once they have finished speaking....do tell dem that they have mistook u and tell dem that honestly this is not the real situation.....Well, only if they are interested you need to continue...If they are not, they might misunderstand you more....And one important thing that you should do is to inform your best friend about this, so he might understand your situation and can help you in this situation....Dont hesitate to tell atleast one person the real truth...
And once the situation has calmed, do tell the person who started misunderstanding you(in private) that his/her view was wrong and he/she should believe what you are telling....
Well, I advice you not to use this method if you think that the reason for being misunderstood is true....cos if people findd that you arre lying....Then they wont believe you again....
So think carefully and act wisely...
All the best yaar



