have you ever blame your parents because of little things?

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China
September 28, 2007 2:14am CST
i did. and now i was very regret to do such things. when i had a shop, then sometimes my mom looked after it for me, but she couldn't remeber the correct price of something, then i would blame her. but one day, when she received a false 100 RMB, she didn't tell me the truth. then i felt i was wrong. i didn't blame my mom as a saleswoman. she is my mom, but frankly, i didn't mean to blame her. sorry, mom.
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13 responses
• Malaysia
28 Sep 07
hi, wonderful1.. ya..me also same with yu got blame my parents because of little things..when i play computer, then my mum ask me go do something then me will angry about my mum.. because call me when me play game.. sorry about my mum..
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• China
28 Sep 07
we shouldnt' hurt our moms because of little things. remember it. you are a good child.
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@2babita (1072)
• India
28 Sep 07
Well,its nice to hear that you said sorry to your mom.I think mother is a very special person in our life and I think we should not hurt them in any cause.I think what we are today it is for her who sacrifice,carry us in her womb for 9 months without caring any pain.I think you have done the right thing.God bless you and your mom.
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• China
28 Sep 07
thank you, 2babita. you are a kind person.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
28 Sep 07
I do have blamed my parents in the past for silly things..but i regret for my error and wrong judgement of blaming others for my mistakes..But nowadays i know their true value and never say anything wrong that hurts them..i think before i speak and dont loose temper with them.This is the maturity everyone gets when age passess and those children who blame parents will definitely realise their mistake and repent later..
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• Philippines
28 Sep 07
aww..i think your mom is very nice..she is so caring she manage to help you with your store..maybe you can just teach her some of what she can do so she will not get wrong of anything in your store..she might just wanna help you really and show you she cares and did not mean to make a mistake..
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@anuj291 (575)
• India
28 Sep 07
i will not use the word blame for myself but ya i have been involved in some heated arguments with mom and dad,,and i regret it after they are over,,cuz we are smaller and we have more ego and prestige than them,,where as it shuld be the other way around,,i reallly hate myself after doin sucha thing,,and now i try the best to control and think befor sayin anythin at alll thnx and tc
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@viroop (155)
• China
28 Sep 07
no never i did that .i always thought on thier side and never blamed them for small things and always i know that what they do is for us and they have a lot of love towards us and why to blame for small things?
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@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
I don't remember blaming my parents for anything, but my husband did,he told me a story when they were still young and they were so poor,they have no home,they got kicked out of the home they are renting and there was a big storm,they stayed on a mkeshift home made of paper boxes,he said he cried and he really did blamed his parents for that. Of course he was so sorry now and he love his family so much.
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@Arshian (476)
• Pakistan
28 Sep 07
no i cant even think about it i love my parents tooo much :)
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2 Oct 07
Hio Yes I have, even though it is not really their fault which I told them as well, but just the way society makes it. I blame my parents for not teacihng me to be myself more instead of letting me grow up thinking I had to be younger versions of them. It took me so long to live my life the way I liked to all because I had feelings of guilt down to not being the way they were; silly things as well like rudshing home every night to eat at 6pm. It took me ages to let go of the emotions I had because of this. I teach my children what right and wrong is but remind them that they are not here to copy me but to grow into a life that suits them as long as it makes them happy, and they are healthy I will be proud no matter what they do or are. Denise
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
28 Sep 07
It is good to see this. I should call my parents later. We have so many different opinions, therefore I always blew my lid. At the same time, they just stand it. Like others, I know it is my fault. Once it happens, I can't control myself. When they are wrong, I should keep scilent or persuade them patiently. When they are right, why not think it over about their minds.
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@lgwlong (199)
• China
29 Sep 07
i did too, but everytime after i do that, i felt regret ,but my parent always bear with me,now they are getting elder and elder ,i should take more time to care about them
@resuab (265)
• United States
28 Sep 07
i use to, but the more i start thing about the cause of the problem, they usually have very little to do with the outcome of what happened. i think we just do that in general to spread the blame around to make ourselves feel better.
@Weldom (15)
• China
29 Sep 07
Yes,I did when I was young.I was regret to do that and so sorry now.I love my parents very much and tried my best to make them happy.Wish all parents happy all day and all night.