How to control our temper?

Malaysia
September 28, 2007 1:53pm CST
How you control your temper? Usually this happen when people are in anger and bad mood. Sometimes if we failed to control our own temper, somethings bad maight happen and might make us regret.
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@eprado (1470)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
Hello blackie, Yes I think controlling one's temper is very important. Temper is like an infectious disease sometimes and can be infecting the people around you in very short time. It could be destructive and fatal if gets out of control. Temper is just like a power keg inside our bodies, which may turn into big explosion by just a fuse of simple or small reasons. When we fail to control our temper, it could severely jeopardize our relationships with the people around us. It can destroy friendships, love, care, and life. It can turn people into adversaries, to hate and to retaliate against each other. Controlling our temper sometimes can be difficult. We all have different level of self-control, and reaction to sensitive questions, conversation and attitude. We each have various ways and methods to handle touchy and humiliating actions or words. Me, whenever I am in a difficult situation or an argument I simply just calm and quiet myself. I don't usually let things get out of my hands and would talk and listen in calm manner.
• Malaysia
29 Sep 07
Ya. You are doing a great job to answer my discussion. Controlling one's temper is really important because it may turn into big explosion as you mention above. Or we can say it's just like the volcano eruption that is dangerous. Friends around will get hurt and the effect may be fatal. I think one should try to figure out their own best way to reduce their stress and anger. Try to figure out the best way to calm down when get into bad mood and anger. Thanks for your respond. Have a nice day!
• India
28 Sep 07
you are right. i have lost my temper so many times because of my 5 years old naughty son amd i have hit him like any thing. i realy don't know what to do to control my temper. some one please advise me.
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• Malaysia
29 Sep 07
That's sounds a bit cruel. You should stop it before something bad happen. You shouldn't hit your child like that. You must control your temper and do not bust out on anyone. Try to find some activities that can reduce your stress and temper.Thanks for your respond.Have a nice day!