what do you think is so difficult in love?

Philippines
September 28, 2007 7:54pm CST
for me maybe what is difficult is loving someone without that "someone" knowing it...
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7 responses
@daring (235)
• India
2 Oct 07
the most difficulty in love love is when someone did not recognize the love that i have for her and the time when she ignore me thats it
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• Philippines
2 Oct 07
you are right...it's really difficult to have one-sided kind of love or worse..you'r loved one loves you back but doesn't do anything to fight for you.
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 07
I think, the difficulties when in love is when you are not able to see your loved ones. Maybe because of too busy with work or something else.
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• Philippines
29 Sep 07
there are really people who prioritize other things rather than their loved ones. Consider it their loss.
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
Love is never difficult, it just its the people who makes it difficult. Its the expectations that we have about love that makes it difficult. For instance, we expect the one we love to love us right back. We can love them and not expect them to love us back that is something I think we should do, if that person will response then great but not then good as well for the heart knows how to love no matter what would be the outcome is.
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
you're right but it's really difficult to fight the second nature of love. I mean wouldn't you hope to receive love back from the person you love? but then yes it really needs acceptance that no matter what..we shouldn't expect.
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
29 Sep 07
Discerning the pretenders. Tons of people pretend in relationships. They don't love you the person. They love the gifts you give them. They love the things you do for them as long as its for them only. They love the person they try to puppet you to be. But they really don't love the you you. Then there are also the critical "lovers". People who complain at the other person just to complain and just to nitpick. NOTHING is ever good enough. There are also plenty of double standards in love. I've posted a synopsis list as a discussion (originally compiled by me, male friends, male family and online male friends). Anyways, its all a disgusting mess and I will deal with it no longer.
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@izathewzia (5141)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
They say, if you love someone better let that someone knows about it. They rather know about it even they don't accept it than let time pass by and they did not even know you love them. But i do find it hard telling my emotions. I'd rather show it through my actions than me telling it to them.
@metmet (54)
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
maybe because that is want to think so.... You;ve already set your mind love is difficult, but the other, they have that love is easy. Is a matter of what experience you had,,, You can't explain love its a mysterious and explainable feeling...
@Anna52 (1)
• China
3 Oct 07
Beacuse ita a very complex thing.And we are worried about what we can do for our sweetheart.We are always want to get more when we paied.At the same time, we may worry about the tomorrow.But,however,love is a beautiful and nice thing.All of us should enjoy it.