Would you forgive your partner for cheating on you?

by nature i would not. But i would sit with him and listen to what is his reasons for developing another relationship besides the one with me. I would definetly tell him that what he done, caused me to finish this relationship and that i can not trust him anymore. I do belief that when a person goes to the easy way instead of talking and trying to solve the problems, he will do it again.

Pfft. No! No, no and NO! Oh she maybe sorry but she's not sorry for cheating. She's sorry because I caught her and her boy toy! Plus in one case she chose the boy toy as "the perfect guy". Clowns. Forgive? No. Forget? Hell no. Oh if she really loved me she wouldn't have cheated. But of course if a guy cheats he's a scumbag and she should never take him back, and never does. But if a girl cheats, its not her fault, its the guy's fault. Or, oh she's sorry, the sap should stay in the relationship. NO! What kind of twilight zone, backwards setup is that!? I'm not taking it, and no guy should have to either!

I don't know what I will think about it if I had such a partner who betrayed me. Anyway I don't think that we will have this kind of harsh thing happen between my partner and me. We are true to each other. hehe.

"nobody's perfect" By forgiving it's tend to be the success in relationship even in a marriage life. Forgiveness is hard to build for sometimes, even harder if you are the person who had mis-proof blamed by others (You didn't do the blame stuff). I will stay in the relationship. I will forgive every thing I can until the last of the relationship. Even the worst. Yes, easy to said but hard to apply. But I had been there. In return, I found our partner is paying more respect to us and more love she can give to us. The more you can forgive her, the more she will give. But it's not the same, if the girl has no intention in love with you. It will only remark as a common friendship rather than love relationship itself.

no, i wouldn't forgive or forget. cheating is horrible when it's just a one night stand type of deal but if you're in another relationship all together as well as in a relationship with me, it's over. there's definitely no chance that i'd stay with him. no matter what he said or did it would be over for good.

forgive.move on.it should like this.

As I am a very normal human being I won't continue the relationship.It is very unlikely of me.I just can't stand the breach of trust.

I don't think I would ever forgive him and I definately wouldn't stay with him. My husband knows this and it goes both ways. If I were to cheat on him, he'd be gone, if he were to cheat on me, I'd be gone. However, neither of us have to worry about that ever happening. My husband and I are very honest with eachother and talk things out. Problems are always dealt with and we trust each with anything and everything. We also both truly love eachother. People that truly love eachother don't cheat on eachother. Cheating shows that you DON'T love the person you are with. So, if you're relating this to a personal situation you're in, the person who cheated does not love whoever they cheated on or with for that matter.

i can't forgive him if he have another relationship simultaneously. love is pure. if i love someone, then i just want to stay with him forever. and i will think of him every second. how can i stay with a guy and think another one. so i can't forgive him. i will say goodbye to him, and lose connection with him forever.

That means, she herself did'nt realize her mistake and feeling repentent. It is more like, she's feeling ashamed of herself after being caught and hence asking for forgiveness and also seems to be repenting. It can even be a pretence to cheat furthermore. Its not very sanely to simply forgive, forget and live with someone who is *caught* cheating on. I would first like to know the reason behind this cheating. Whether - it is because she found something seriously wrong with my character, attitude, etc - OR - just because she found someone more attractive than me. If it's the former, eventhough i consider my character to be gentle and very good, i will do a self-analysis once and check how true her words are. To my astonishment - if her explanation was a gospel truth - i will sincerely apologise and forgive all her mistakes. If it's because of the latter reason, i will wish her all the best for her future and move on. P.S; I did'nt understand what your postscript means, "Both" as in, me and her??

well if ever this happen.. and my partner really ask for forgiveness and willing to repent and start it all over again.. i will buy her flowers and treat her.. i'll forgive her.. this is what i will do. We humans makes mistakes. Its ok for me.. if she made this mistakes and she realize its wrong and ask me for forgiveness.. i will forgive her and accept her.. i see nothing wrong here.. and i will do it because i love her so much...

Hi mimpi. To me, I will never forgive, NEVER. Since she cheated for the first time, it's nothing surprise for her to cheat for second or third time. Don't risk the feeling into this kind of relationship, it's not worth.

You Love each other truly? Well that is your answer. I did something stupid recently. Did not have an affair, did not sleep with anyone. Just drank a couple of biers and ended up not knowing how I got home. Later i heard I had been crying and sitting on a guys lap! MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE Oh my God, that is impossible. But, yes we all make mistakes. I have not drank since. When you have problems and drink you have an even bigger problem. Problems can swim! But my man was very tolerant. He understood. He is now spending more time with me. And we are talking more and more. Doing more things together. He proved to me that he really does love me. And that has made our relationship even stronger. We overcome, we don´t run away. So my friend, you both love each other. Talk and things can only get better. Good Luck.

ill tell u story..my ex bf was having a relationship with his ex gf. and the girl got pregnant..i didnt know it until the baby was 8 mos old. when i found out i broke up with him. though we both know that we still love each other. we couldnt be together anymore. its like im ruining their chance of being a complete family! i really did forgive him eventually. And i did try to forget about him ang his unfaithfulness..im so happy to say that i did[actually it took me 3 yrs.hehehe] but now he was just a history. it depends on every situation... but i believe that everybody deserves a second chance[or for some instances more than twice.hehehe!]

sUCH A DECISION WOULD DEPEND ON MY PARTNER'S ATTITUDE.ITS LIKE IF SHE HAS MADE A MISTAKE AND DICLOSES TO ME OPENLY WHAT HAS HAPPENED , I WOULD ACCEPT HER AND CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP STRONGER THAN EVER, BUT INCASE IF I FIND IT OUT AND SHE STILLE DNIES THE THING (IF ITS TRUE) THEN I WOULD ABORT THE RELATION THEN AND THERE BECAUSE I DONT THINK ITS WORTH LIVING WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESNT UNDERSTAND YOU

I dont think i'd be able to forgive him no matter how deep or true the relationship i share with him.if it was really true then he needn't fall for someone else too.i would be very hurt too and it'll be heartbreaking.

No, I couldn't. Cheating, lying, infidelity and all those are reprehensible and completely unforgivable. End of story.

I would say that I will forgive, but not before knowing the reasons. What led my partner to go into another relationship simultaneously, was my partner feeling insecured or was I lacking in something, which promted my partner to enter into another relatioship. I think entering into another relationship simultaneously cannot be without justifiable and logical reasons. If reasons are convincing enough and I feel satisfied with the reasons then I can forgive my partner. I would definitely like to know the root cause or that relationship, before forgiving my partner. I feel one chance can be given to my partner for mending her ways with the promise that same will not happen again.

my dear friend, I don't think that you can be in two relationships at the same time and honestly say that you love both women or men ..when you love someone, you cannot think about anybody else..there is simply no space in your mind, no time, no desire, no need..your love is your sun and your night and it is enough..you are satisfied by him or her..So I don't think I could forget the fact that he lied to me all the time and that he ruined what we created that was a miracle...the miracle of nourishing love in a world where love has no place or no power..

for me it is easy to say that,im not goin to forgive if he heated on me, but i think you would if you really love him, and if he done it again just forgive him again until he realize what he is been doin to you, and soon you will see the result.