love advice

objective: to to lose bf. problem: obsession. analysis: a lover chooses an object of his love because he found something special in her. if that special quality starts to fade. the lover would realize that the object of love would not be worth it. the move: look back into your relationship to the time you started, even prior to it, see what qualities that attracted him to you. having realized these special qualities of yours, keep them and if needed improve on them. relationship is about trust. again, it is about trusting that person. obsession goes the opposite way. it is your choice now. i wish you well....

Insecurity is not good. What are you afraid of? You should be able to trust who you are with completely and if you don't you need to rethink why you are with someone you don't trust. There's no need to be obsessive you don't own or control another person. You can't tell another person what to do. How they live their live is up to them Everyone needs space. If you keep acting jealous and obsessive that is surely a way to push them away. No one wants to be in a relationship like that. If you act like that you have to examine yourself and ask what makes you act like that. Think about why you have those insecurities.