Is it wrong to scould kIDS if they are wrong????

@shak143 (1280)
India
September 30, 2007 2:22am CST
Every parent want's that there kids have to leave a good life and pleasent.He/she whould earn some name in socuiety where we are leaving.Help's them in acheiving it.For that they are ready to go far extent.But i came across a survey where kids are complainting about there parents that they won't require and guidence from there parents as they scould them. is it wrong to scould there kids if they went wrong any where?they don't have any rights to do so? who will follow there parents words if they tell them in polite manner or in cool. what you say about this?
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@cherriemae (3373)
• Philippines
30 Sep 07
i think what's wrong with that act is that you come in a point that you really beat your child..for me, need to talk in a nice way, and explain for him in a way that he could understand it..i admit, sometimes, i shout to my daughter because she had fault but after a while i feel sorry and i embrace her and say sorry to her..
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@shak143 (1280)
• India
1 Oct 07
NO i oppose beating to childrens more than i preffer to talk to them and explain them what they are doing.But they are not ready to belive that net friends and blind dateing is not secure....that's the point...any how thanks for your reply
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
Hi shak.. Nope. There is no wrong with that. You scold them because you want to correct their attitudes and behaviors. There are no parents who let their own child grow indecent. Parents do scold or punish their children not because they do it intentionally for without valuable reason, but because they love their children and they want their children to be disciplined enough and to grow old as a better person in the future. Have a nice day and God speed!
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
30 Sep 07
Its no bad in scolding kids when they are worng..!! They should atleast KNOW that they ARE doing WORNG..!! And its their parents duty to let them know that what is difference between right & wrong!! So there is not a big problem in scolding them whenever they go worng!! But one should never use bad offensive words for kids, 'cause it will not only disturbe them but will also teach them those bad words ..now you don't want your kid to be yelling those bad words to others!! Try to not use such abd words while scolding them!! And overall one should keep their children in control no matter if it take scolding them too.
@shak143 (1280)
• India
1 Oct 07
Thansk for your comment stella1989.I agree with you and also accept your advice that while scoulding kids no useage of bad words as they will learn them and they can get hurt and chances are there that they became to rude.
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• India
1 Oct 07
hey thanks fro marking me as best one among of all thanks..!!
@coffeeshot (3785)
• Australia
1 Oct 07
It depends what you mean by scolding. There's a difference between really putting a kid down and making him feel worthless or teaching them the difference between right and wrong. I believe that we must teach our children right from wrong as these kids will grow up to be members of society. If a parent does not discipline their child then I believe the parent is responsible for the children's criminal behaviour when they grow up. But there is a wrong and right way to discipline. The child should never feel unloved or worthless, they should be taught that what they did was wrong and that they can not behave like that again.
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
30 Sep 07
If a kid is wrong a kid is wrong! You have to scold, you have to teach, you have to show them that they are wrong. Kids have to learn what is right and wrong because in some cases their lives could depend on it. In many others the learning helps them become better people and not empty trifling clowns.
• United States
30 Sep 07
I don't think so. I think children need guidance and discipline. If they don't get that from their parents how are they going to be able to follow the rules(laws) set out for them when they're adults? I don't think that the discipline should be abusive and/or demeaning,but it should definitely exist.
@runsgame (2031)
• India
30 Sep 07
well,it depends upon the situation of the family . generally and normally it is not advsisable to scould the kids. of course they are kids and they will rectify their habits and teachings later on . that is when they grow their habits get changed so it is not wise to scould them ., it will spoil their mood and gets affected with some type of inner feelings