pleseae Help me make a choice

@wseayuan (372)
China
September 30, 2007 9:20pm CST
Do me a favor.I'am a colleage student who will graduate .i want to work after graduating from shcool.but my parents want me to study to be a postgraduate to find a good job.i don't want so.because my family is not rich .i don't want to use more my parents's money.i want to be independent in money.but i love my parents ,they also love me ,too.i know. i don't want to be a sorrow to them, what should i to do? what is the better choice??
2 responses
• United States
1 Oct 07
i would say that you can go ahead and study post graduation, because as for money you can earn it after you are done your post graduation more that what you can earn now. By that you not only keep your parents happy but also can look after them well and have more financial independence or freedom. As for money for your studies, they can get money from anywhere. you can pay it off easily once you start your earining
@wseayuan (372)
• China
1 Oct 07
freedom,independent ,money,duty,family,myself,how to balance
• United States
1 Oct 07
At your present stage you cannot have all at once. If you want to be yourself then you must go against your parents wish. And about independence and freedom you can have it now, but that too against your parents wish. Balance can only be done when you can have a high position.
@Buds002 (38)
• United States
1 Oct 07
Look around is thair other things you can do can you get help to pay for your collage? This would help so your Parents's don't have to pay it all. Can you get a part time job? This can be worked in and others are doing it. Do you want the collage and will you use it or just go off in to another fild? This is something that you have to know no one can tell you how to be happy. I have an other net work site that you may be able to find friends to help you and make some money go to my web page on my MYLOTS profile.