Why Fathers Are Strick Against Mothers
By furqanoops
@furqanoops (363)
Pakistan
September 30, 2007 9:26pm CST
i always try to find comments from my friends that their mother is very strick to them but always find the answer that their mother is polite but their father is very strick to them.
in my home the situation is same as in other homes, my father is very strick to us and my mother is very polite with us that is why we are close to our mother against father it does not that mean that we do not love our father we love him but we do more love with our mother
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4 responses
@christineli (524)
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
Hello furqanoops :)
Women are generally soft-hearted, maybe this is because of their biological makeup. That's also the reason why they cry easier and more often than men. I can relate to what you are saying as I am a mother. Often, its hard for me to get angry or spank my children. If I spank them I get hurt also. Mothers emotions are just naturally and sometimes hopelessly weak when it comes to their children.
@danishcanadian (28954)
• Canada
1 Oct 07
It was the same way in my home growing up, but in my husband's case (he has children from a previous marriage) he was always a soft touch to the children, but their mother was more strict. I think men and women just handle things differently, but in some cases there are rare exceptions, such as my husband.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 07
It's nature. A balance of family's life. One side will play the role as a "dominant" one, it will be better his/her partner as a "receptor".
Mostly broken-home started from two "dominants" trying too often to take control of the chairman in problem solving. It will be likely to end the relationship's harmony more quicker if they are involve in a very long conflict with no solutions.
Sometimes it's better to have the first option family condition.
