Friends or girl friends...????

Indonesia
October 2, 2007 9:08am CST
Sometimes I met a girl from the net,for the first time,it's really fun talking with her. But suddenly when we're gonna met really on the real world, they become paranoid... I don't know why do they respond like that... Well what do you think of that ? Have you ever faced a situation like mine ? Tell me your oppinion, or may be you have a strategy in facing it ?
3 responses
@gesell03 (173)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
well i am like the paranoid girl you are talking about, its just that when its just email , or text and chat it is very easy to open up but to try and see a stranger whom you have no idea whether he is what he says he is, then you really can get paranoid, i dont know how this men that i text and chat with would be able to convince me to see them, sometimes i feel that i would be cheap or easy to get if i meet up with them, i mean i see them just as friends and prevent myself from believing that this is true that our relationship is for real,i dont know , the women , or i should be brave to face my insecurities and stop thinking too much if i really want to meet that someone. i hope she is over her confusions,but im certainly still on the process.
• Indonesia
3 Oct 07
Meeting somebody in the internet, it's virtual but it's real..so I'm sure if you believe in him there's no problem with the relation...
• Malaysia
2 Oct 07
infatuation? sorry but i don't understand when you say "they become paranoid" who are they???
• Indonesia
3 Oct 07
They mean, those girls....
• Pakistan
2 Oct 07
i beleive on friends its does not matter that he is a boy or a girl, by me their no concept of gender in friendship if you have girl friend or a boy friend its ok but he/she must be honest to you or every one the friends that we find on the internet, i do not beleive on that friendship i want to live in real type of life i never beleive the friendship of internet
• Indonesia
3 Oct 07
Why didn't you believe in friendship in the internet ? Did you have experience for it ? Would you tell me ?