as a female i can tell you bigger isnt always better, there are a few slu-ts that like tree trunks on guys, but im discusted by guys with huge members. I dont want it to tear me up or be overly painfull, its what ya do with it that counts!!
This is a common question for sure. In my opinion, bigger isn't better.
Too big and it causes pain in either direction, to say it subtly.
It's what is done with it AND what's done BEFORE doing it at all.