If you do not live in the same city with your family...

@terrych (1227)
United States
October 3, 2007 11:17am CST
How often do you visit them? In my case I live in a different country far far away from my family, and I only get to see them maybe 2 times a year, I go there and I stay for 3 weeks... So how often you visit your family?
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8 responses
• Canada
3 Oct 07
Hi terrych, I live in Canada, and my parents live in the USA. I usually only see them once or twice a year as I have their only grand child. We keep in touch a LOT though, we talk on the phone once or twice a week. Your Friend, PurpleTeddyBear
• Canada
3 Oct 07
Yes, keeping in touch is very important if you don't see your family all that often. The phone and via email are a great way! Love & Hugzz, Your Friend, PurpleTeddyBear
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@terrych (1227)
• United States
4 Oct 07
some time a call can be like a visit...
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@terrych (1227)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Hi my friend... I guess if we can not go too often to see aour family, keep in touch it is necesary... well at least for me...
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@laurika (4532)
• United States
3 Oct 07
When I was living in Germany , it was for me 45 minutes by the plane to go home and seven hours by car.I would go visit my family every three month or more.Now I am in USA so it is much more far from them , but I am plaing to go home for Christam.I hope this long flight would be not that bad.
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@laurika (4532)
• United States
4 Oct 07
Oh, thank you.It ws very sweet of you.
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@terrych (1227)
• United States
3 Oct 07
It will be alright... only think about the good time you are going to have with them...and the flight will be almost nothing...
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@terrych (1227)
• United States
18 Oct 07
I wish I coul go and visit my family for Christmas... it does not matter the time it takes to get there, or the long of the trip, I think it worth it!
@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
3 Oct 07
I think it all depends on the family and how often you communicate. My mum lives in Germany while I live in Singapore. I try to see my mother once a year, either I fly over or she will fly over to Singapore. We also speak on the phone on a weekly basis - and of course there is also email, msn and all sorts of other wonderful software that makes communication over distance so much easier. My Dad is a little less communicative and we keep to communicating on special occasions like Birthdays (I call him on his and he calls me on mine) and CHinese New Year. I've had no great desire to fly over to Bangkok where he lives while he has not come to Singapore for quite sometime.
@terrych (1227)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Yeah, I guess you are rigth depends on tha family... Thanks for your answer!
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@Terri_R (302)
• United States
3 Oct 07
My dad and I lived in the same town for over 10 years. He moved from Texas to Arkansas about 2 years ago. I am ashamed to say that I probably see him more now than I did when we were 10 miles from each other. While he never comes to visit me, I visit him at least every 3 or 4 months.
@terrych (1227)
• United States
3 Oct 07
That is good... you are seeing him more often...I guess when we know we have them close we do not feel the need of see them that often...
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@Terri_R (302)
• United States
3 Oct 07
That is so very true. It's easy to take someone for granted.
@terrych (1227)
• United States
4 Oct 07
Yeah... sometime they are so close, so we do not care, we feel like we have them for sure...
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@cici6880 (656)
• China
18 Oct 07
I live far away from my family because my school is in another province.I am still a sudent so I have summer vacation and winter vacation then I will go home twice in a year.If I have a holiday for several days maybe I can go home also.
@terrych (1227)
• United States
19 Oct 07
You are lucky that you can go and visit your family when you have vacations... that is great! Thanks for your answer Have a great day!
• United States
4 Oct 07
The most difficult decision I have ever made was where to go once I graduated from college. The university I attended was only 50 miles from my hometown, so I could go home and have dinner with my family any night of the week. I had always lived in the Houston area, but many of my friends moved to Dallas after college and the first time I visited the city, I fell in love with it and wanted to give it a try. The biggest factor that initially held me back was the distance from my family. I decided that I couldn't pass up the opportunity to venture out and try a different area while I'm still young and free to go wherever I choose, so I moved to Dallas and haven't looked back. I miss my family very much, and I wish that I could be at every birthday party and family gathering, but I'm very happy with my decision to move away. I have managed to not go more than two months without seeing them. I go home as much as I can, and they come here to visit, and sometimes we meet up somewhere in between. Family is extremely important, but don't be scared to separate from them in order to experience a great life for yourself.
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@terrych (1227)
• United States
4 Oct 07
It is a difficult decision as you said, but it is worth it, I just came here to study, but I am not sure what will do after that...
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
In my case, my family lives in our province that is why I cant see them as often as I like because the fare is quiet expensive. And have responsibilities that I just cannot lve. So i visit them twice a year and spend vacations there. God know how much I miss my family but right now that is all that I can do...
@terrych (1227)
• United States
18 Oct 07
I know how that feel, but it is great that you can go and visit them and spend vacations with them! Thanks for you answer!
@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
18 Oct 07
well i visit my mom and one sis all the time they live 5 minutes away which is really cool,i would be lost with out them,my older sis lives in easton pa so i dont get to see her as much but i try to like every few months if i can.how are you doing?hope all is well hon.have a great day and smiles to you.pattie
@terrych (1227)
• United States
18 Oct 07
Well is nice that you have most of your family around you... you are lucky girl! I am doing well, school have me busy these days, but I will be back to normal after next thursday!