Does action speak louder than words?
By quelsg
@quelsg (51)
Philippines
October 3, 2007 12:13pm CST
There are people who have difficulty in expressing their feelings especia1lly saying "I love you" to those whom you love. So how do you express your love toward a person without being embarrassed? I envy those person who can easily express their love but as for me it is really hard. My tongue is tied from saying it so I just show it by action.
3 responses
@subin_loyolite (262)
• India
3 Oct 07
Well I donnno what i say will help you....
Anyway try reading this...
We all try to live with the person we love....Do we think of anyone else who want to live with you.?
eg.You love a person....But another person loves you....And you are not willing to accept this persons request..It is bad na?
Just like that we need to think a lot before saying the statement,...If you are selecting the person whom you are going to live with for the rest of your life, make sure that the other person also likes that.....You see many expressing their love...Do you see these many people living comfortably all their life....Divorce is common because they dont think of their future....Always think atleast 4 times if the person whom u love will be able to live with you...
And our wish is not the main thing...We have to consider their wish also....
In your case you dont have the courage to express your love.....I shall give you some lines which might help you...I dont have any previous experience so use carefully :D...
IF U LOVE THAT PERSON SINCERELY AND IF YOU THINK BOTH OF YOU CAN LEAD A PEACEFUL AND LOVEABLE LIFE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFETIME....Then tell this to that person in private....."Hey, I donno how to express myself....I feel as if i lostt everything when you are not near me...I donno what I am telling is right....I would like you to be a part of my life....I give you the time to think...I really love you from the deep of my heart....And I would like to know your response..."...
I donno if this wil make the situation more worse....
Anyway I advice you to speak out your mind to that person if your love is sincere....I dont know more to tell you bcos i dono your situation and so on...
If you tell that i might help you again....
@quelsg (51)
• Philippines
9 Oct 07
Thank you for the advice but I think you got me wrong. What I'm trying to tell here is that it's hard to tell your loved ones how much you love them. I'm referring to our parents, our brothers and sisters, our friends, and so on. We just show it in action. There are people who can easily say it. Why is it so hard to some? Maybe it depends on the culture and family upbringing. If you are brought up in your family who always tell that they love you I think you can also say that you love them too. Do you agree?
@darshakk (2141)
• India
3 Oct 07
First of all behave in a caring way(which i feel u must be doing it),also make ur love feel comfortable when with you....
then let ur behaviour speak for u...
finally i wud say that all thngs need nt be just understood by wrds....so speak up and say that u love him/her so much..
all the best
