Is being possessive abt ur partner wrong in love or marriage???

India
October 3, 2007 12:42pm CST
Imagine u have a bf/gf/spouse/wife is so very possessive abt u and just could stand to see u talking to the other gender be it ur friend or a stranger.would u approve of it and adjust to his/her opinion abt it or talk it out with them??how far would u go to change their ideas??would u dare to leave them???do post in ur comments
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• United States
3 Oct 07
...Curtis62 stated it very well. I have experienced this a couple of times. My ex is a control freak. He has a very low self esteem. He wanted to control how often I went to church and what I did there. ...It is one thing to be addressed as someones significant other and quite another to be told who you can talk to and what you can do. If the later is occurring, RUN!! ...Peace be with you. =(^;^)= Della
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@curtis62 (30)
• United States
3 Oct 07
There is possevive and there is overbearing. At times we may all be a little possesive but going as far as telling your significant other what they can do, who they can talk to and on and on is nothing but a control freak. And these relationships seldom work out. A relationship is a give and take situation each side at least should try to compromise for the others benefit. After having a discussion and if the other person is unwilling to compromise then it is time to either become very passive or get out of the relationship. A person who is very controling is showing that they have no self esteem and by controling all the actions of the other they make themselves feel better figuring they are the master of the relationship.
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