How do you tell someone you love her?
5 Oct 07
Since you are not describing how far you had gone with her in the approaching, it's hard to give you a bull's eye answer. But if you had done the approaching step, and she seems did not rejected everything you had shown to her at those past time. It's getting better. This is my way: Call her, make a Date with her, prepare everything, as long as the place is where you can spend the most time together. Make sure you prepare well, from the place until the small details, like flowers or gifts. I prefer to hide my gift nearby, so it will a surprise to her, or it depends on where and how the occasion will be, it's relative. Next try to make a common conversation with her just like past time when you met her. And be natural, don't feel cocky, or your conversation will be just meaningless, briefly it makes you look dumb. Always focusing your eyes to her eyes, don't stare empty at elsewhere, just focus on her eyes when she is the one who is talking. I know we Men love to stare to emptiness when having conversation man-to-man. If you can't, I have a tips for you, train yourself at mirror, talk to mirror and always look at your eyes in the mirror. Remember don't feel emptiness in the middle of the process, try to receive everything into your brain while you are looking into eyes in the mirror. So you will know what you are talking about. It's hard at first time, but you can do it. Alright, after long listening and talking. Seek the moment, should find a right moment, I repeat a right moment. (if me, I notice when the silence together, where she is not talking), go forward for the surprising gift. Make a joke if you are able of this humor stuff, they just love it. Then the shoot out, tell her that you want to tell her something. If she said what, don't shocked her with that word. You will need an introduction small and brief chat to put your 3 words in the right timing. Then it's attached. Now you must be expecting the answer, but don't hope expect it too soon. Unless she also loves you at the first place but maybe waiting for you to go first. Some woman are strategying themselves too :) too make the "battle" seems interested, and some woman will think about testing. Don't worry, intercept them, but use intelligent answer to what she offers you. Humor sometimes will lure the battle point. There you go, you had passed the exam of many man who tried to make a love relationship phase. Later ask her, did she feel the same too. Don't push her, if she is not giving an answer. Face all what the outcome. The love doesn't have to use word for the applying, but it still needed, so she will know in what status or position you are now. This is just one sample, anyway there are thousand method of shooting out the word for each couples. So it's relative. Good Luck bro.
• Delhi, India
4 Oct 07
It is not necessary to convey in words to someone, that you love him/her. I believe that your overall attitude tells a lot about your relatationship with the other fellow, if two persons are in love, I believe, they can feel it, without a word being communicated between them.
4 Oct 07
Just say, "I love you", while looking straight into her eyes. Actually, you wouldn't need flowers or chocolates or sweet verses just to tell her you love her. Those three little words if said sincerely and from the bottom of your heart can already sweep this girl off her feet. (Then be ready to catch her... *wink*)
4 Oct 07
If you love someone truly its always beter to go directly and tell her you would feel you are not courageous enough but you should gather enough strength and say to her mind you she is not gonna eat you up
18 Oct 07
There are lots of way that you can do to show and tell someone that you love him or her. Its not only by saying it but also by showing it. Make everyday a special for both of you. Never take her for granted. Hold her hands the way that you did when you were still courting her. Make the most out of your life together.