What can I do to make me happy?

@paintwet (165)
China
October 4, 2007 5:27am CST
mabey money marry or friends can bring happy to somebody,but i don't think so. when i earn more money i fell worse unhappy,just because it make me so busy,and more and more busy.it seems i almost cann't stop it. marry also haven't bring happy to me.i always think my wife have a lot change after marriage. i am at a loss ,and what can i do?
3 responses
• China
5 Oct 07
i think you need to go for a psychology doctor.you don't what you really want.you are undering a great stress.
@paintwet (165)
• China
5 Oct 07
it is difficult for me to find a good psychology doctor in my city.
• United States
5 Oct 07
Bless your heart Paintwet! Working all the time def will make you unhappy, so you need to know when to work and when to relax and dont mixt the two! Talk to your wife, tell her how your feeling. You wont know if she has changed if you dont really get to see her or spend time with her because your working so much. So just talk to her. Ask her if everything is ok. I hope you get happy soon! Try not to stress out over things so much. Its really worked for me to just let things go. I feel so much better! Bay xx
@paintwet (165)
• China
5 Oct 07
thanks i think you are right.
• Australia
4 Oct 07
Well try to keep a balance between your work, dont take too much stress on yourself & try to spend time with your family & go out. About your marriage, lots of people change after marriage but thats coz before your wife was your girlfriend and now she is your wife, try to understand her & tell her that you still want to see her as your girlfriend and dont feel relaxed with eachother & give eachother same amount of attraction & time
@paintwet (165)
• China
4 Oct 07
thank you very much and i think you are right.