complecated love affair,culture.pls help my friend

Philippines
October 4, 2007 8:12am CST
my told me that he met a girl.and he likes her, but when they go out for a date the girl told him that she have 2 kids and separated. the girl is 4 years older than him. its good that she tells him and be honest to him at first date, but problem this guy just working here and they have strong culture about married, and telling me that once his mother attemp to kill herself becouse he had found having relationship with 5 years older woman.and have one kids.
1 response
@laurika (4532)
• United States
4 Oct 07
Wow this is really complicated.But I think mother need some help, some psychyitatric, who will helped her, because heave like this is not right.She is only hurting his son and he should live how he wants.It is his life, no her mothers life.I think at first he should think about himself if he would be happy with this girl and if they have a lot of in common and can talk to each other.
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
he he he, yah i think so too. thank you for sharing your thoughs. have a great day.