Do you believe the love online?

China
October 6, 2007 11:42am CST
Love online is a hot topic .Do you believe it ?I met my first boy friend who is my lovest on the line .Everyday we talk by internet.I donot make sure whether he like me ,at least i like him .Our relationship lasted 100days .At last we departed ,because he loved another girl .I had cried ,urged to stay ,but fail .Now i cannot say :"believe"or "not believe" clearly.
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@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
7 Oct 07
Going online has become a way to meet people. So it's a start. There should be a progression that you would meet in the future. It would be a lame relationship if it's exclusively email and chatting on the Internet. Also there must be caution. A lot of fakes and psychos on the Internet.
• China
8 Oct 07
That is right@@
• United States
7 Oct 07
I believe that sometimes people can be dishonest online. So I dont always trust it. Plus you can do things without telling people. I was good friends with a guy I met online only. He got my phone number few months after we began emailing and sometimes he called me. He actually found my number online somehow cause he knew the right info. Anyways. I had a girl I was friends with and told her about him because he needed prayer. She started to write him behind my back and I wouldnt have cared had she told me, but she didnt. 2 weeks later he tells me she told him that I might think he was "the one" a thing I'd questioned for a while but told her I was thinking it not saying for sure. It got into a big mess, a big fight. She stopped writing me and he ended up believing her in the end over me so I left him as a friend. ALL this happened ONLINE. So I believe lots of things can happen online. Friends, and love. Let me continue here though. My friend from high school met her now husband in a Christian chat room, online. They met, talked a bit and then met in person. They dated a total of 3 yrs, got engaged, and in the 4th yr they married. They just in August celebrated their 4th anniversary and are having a baby their first in March. So THEY are proof that sometimes online love works. Not always, its not for me but sometimes for you and her it does. Have fun, be honest and hopefully those you like and or date are doing the same. :)
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@mmiller26 (1930)
• Canada
7 Oct 07
I believe in online infatuation. I even believe in online lust. But I can't believe in online love. Love is a word that gets thrown around all too easily, and I feel that it requires more of a face-to-face connection, or something more personal, than words on a screen. It's really easy to find someone you like and want to spend a lot of time talking to them, obsessing over them when they're not online, and it certainly feels like it's something real. But it takes more than that to have a "real" relationship. I met my husband online. We chatted for months, talked on the phone for hours every day, and went to see each other several times over the course of 2 years before we decided that we wanted to stay together. And for us, it worked. We've been married for 8 years and have a great family. But I had several "internet relationships" before I met him, and I can tell the difference between what's real and what's not. Be careful with your heart, and be even more careful with your body. We've all heard of people who meet online and then agree to meet in person, and one person isn't who they pretend to be. Anonymity is part of the appeal, I suppose. There are a lot of people out there who have less than honorable intentions. And it isn't always easy to weed out the good from the bad.
• China
8 Oct 07
I believe time will make a lady more pleasent! your words are theoretical.Indeed we cannot tell apart a good or a bad person on line.We also hear or watch some TV plays about the crime .So we should be careful .
• United States
7 Oct 07
life in chat is no assurance sometimes!mostly if u are far away to each other it really happens that the relationship couldnt stay long!stay sweet!but its only dpend for both of u.if u wanna stay or not!..i am happily married now i meet my husband online too...but he decided to stay with me because he love me..i am from philipnes and he from united states...am sorry to hear about what happen to u..i hope u canfind another man!a good man.
• China
8 Oct 07
So kind-hearted lady !Thank you what you have said to me .I wish you and your husband have a nice life .
@galoforce (263)
7 Oct 07
i wouldnt really trust anyone what they said they were on-line unnless i saw them on cam, though i do belive in love onloine in some cases
• China
8 Oct 07
Different people have different ideas .
• China
8 Oct 07
Different people have different ideas !!
• China
8 Oct 07
I believe,but I never met this kind of love.Yes, some thing make you love some people not just by money and outward,maybe you like him because of his way of thinking and the style of speaking,you may fall in love in every condition,best wishes,I think you can find the best boy.
• China
8 Oct 07
I agree with you ,a lovely girl.May all the good people have a happy marriage.
• India
7 Oct 07
so far i didn find such persons and i ve never thot of it.so i would like to experience it and response to this discussion. is ther any1 who s ready to love me