skinny or appearance,which one most important to a girl?

@mari123 (1861)
China
October 8, 2007 3:59am CST
I have a friend, she is 24 like me. A few months ago she started with a diet because she wanted to look like a model to be nice for boys. She was not fat at all, but she has become very thin. She eats only vegetables and fruits now, would like to eat also other things but she is afraid that she would put on weight. We all tell her that she should stop the diet before she gets ill but she doesn't want to talk about it. I'm very afraid about her. But it is true, now when she is so skinny, the boys like her more. I want to ask all you there: Do you really like skinny girls more than the others??
2 responses
• United States
8 Oct 07
I guess it is all in how you feel about yourself. The world makes us women think that we have to be very thin to be accepted. Although this attitude is not right, I too find myself watching my weight very closely. I don't think that it matters what someone weighs. It is good to take care of your body but not to the extreme of starving yourself. Sounds like your friend may have a touch of anorexia
@mari123 (1861)
• China
8 Oct 07
skinny model ,most of girls like to have,but diet to lost weight i don't agree,because it will be bad for health,for me ,a beautiful grils is not the model,but the appearance.
• Australia
29 Oct 07
both is important actually... but i think beauty is more important... cause i can always lose weight by joining those slimming courses.. hahahaha... but seriously, both is important... i want both... i don mind being average looking and not fat nor thin. its ok with me..