What kind of boyfriend/husband you choose??
By shy_gal
@shy_gal (235)
Malaysia
October 9, 2007 8:18am CST
Hi gals,what kind of boyfriend that you will choose them as your husband?? I think i will choose the one who treat me nice and do not control me too much, for eg he should not control me go out with my friends to have a drink & etc. He also must help me do the housework too. How about you??
1 response
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
9 Oct 07
I chose my best friend as my hubby. The kind of guy who listens to me well, who understands me (or at least always tries to understand me), the kind of guy who doesn't tell me what to do, doesn't give me advice/solutions that I don't need, the kind of guy who always supports my dreams and choices. The kind of guy who makes me laugh and makes me able to be my total self in front of him. The kind of guy who cares about his family and my family and friends. The kind of guy who appreciates me and stating his appreciation in words or touch. The kind of guy who trusts me and loves me no matter what. The kind of guy who's committed to me forever.
OK, I guess that's long enough he he...
@shy_gal (235)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 07
Hi ailema4ever,
Ya, it should better we know that guy more better before we marry to them. Trust is most important between a couple, so we must tell them whatever we want them to do, do not hide it inside our heart.
Hope you can enjoy this relationship until forever!!
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
10 Oct 07
THANKS, shy gal...I also wish this marriage lasts forever. And you're right about telling each other the truth. Men don't like second-guessing women's words, so better just be frank about what we need, when we need it and how to help them understand us better.
