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Hello j3pj3p0221. Welcome to myLot! For me, I will someone who loves me, even though I don't love him. In time, I will learn to love him as I know that the heart can be taught to love. If I go for someone I love but who doesn't love me back, I cannot guarantee that it will be a long and loving relationship as I do not have control over his heart. I hope to see more of your interesting discussions. Take care :)

I experienced it both, although not at the same time. I had my first boyfriend who loved me so much I didn't felt the same way for him so after 6 mos being his girlfriend, I broke with him. Then I had a boyfriend that I really love so much but his feeling for me is not the same as mine for him so again I broke up with him. I think those two choices are leading to sadness and suffering. It's much better if both of you are inlove with each other. But anyway I never regretted that I took those two choices once in my life, simply because I woudn't know the result if I didn't try. I woudn't learn my lesson If I was afraid to choose. As of now I choose to be single and go on with my life. If I will open my heart again I'll make it sure I will not have those two choices... this time I'll go for the third choice which is... i love him so much and he love me so much, that's fair enough. If the third choice will never come then I'm not afraid to choose the fourth choice... which is to be single forever. Have a good choice for all!

hey friend, welcome to mylot. that is my situation now, there is someone who really loves me but I don't love her neither I like her and there is also this someone whom I really love but that person is so popular. I don't know what to do, because I am thinking that if I choose the one who loves me, she'll be happy of course, but I will not be happy. if choose the one that I love, how could I tell her? when she has a lot of sutors that you can ever imagine. she is so beautiful, but I'll make it clear, do not love her just for her physical appearance, I don't know! I just love her!, because of these crazy situations I rather not to choose besides if I choose one of them I'll still be hurt or will not be happy. why not live a life without them! besides life can still go on without them, am I right? so? being single I guess is the most rightful thing to do.