Destiny's Game

Philippines
October 10, 2007 10:34am CST
I do believe that everything in life comes with a purpose. Was there a time in your life wherein you found someone whom you thought would be there for you for the rest of your life but then realized in the end that he'd only passed by in your life just to make you feel loved and leave you when you've already fallen. For me, it is actually part of the game that playful destiny created.
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
Yes when I got married 6 years ago, I already believe that he was the one for me, and nothing could take him away from me... but after 3 years I found out that he was having an affair with his boss. Though hurt, I tried to save our marriage too many times. But no matter how I try things keep on failing. I've been fooled a hundred times, until one day, I realize that he is not really mine. Things are not meant to be, no matter how many times I tell myself that we are married already. He was snatched from me and I cant do anything about it. Well, I believe that he was just meant to be a part of my past... something that I will keep for the rest of my life.
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• Philippines
3 Nov 07
I'm so sad to hear such story as yours. But we could never control everything in our lives no matter how hard we try to. Though, we are the masters of our destiny, but still we can't control everything. I guess, all of us are the so-called "victims of love". Most of us have experience a heartache. Old folks say that it takes a broken heart to find true love. So maybe, the best in your life is yet to come. Just go on and live life to its fullest!
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• Philippines
11 Oct 07
A very interesting topic, DESTINY' s GAME.. yeah, i met someone in the past and i thought he would stay with me for the rest of my life. yet, life is never really perfect and fair.. because of the very fact that we don't own everything in this world and every single thing has its end too and that we don't know when it's gonna end. so we'll just enjoy life's moments and its surprises too and always be ready to accept what destiny might bring no matter it's good or bad.
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
Thanks for sharing your very personal experience. And you're right.. there are really things in life that we cannot control no matter how hard we try to. What's important is that we should always be ready to face whatever obstacles destiny might bring to us.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Oct 07
I think you are righjt. We don't have anything to do in destiny's game. There are some people who come to our life to make us feel great. May be they go away from our life, but temporarily they make us feel good.
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• Philippines
11 Oct 07
Yeah.. there are really these people who come to our lives and knock on our doors and eventually made us feel loved but leave us soon when we've finally fallen for reasons that we sometimes cannot understand. It's so sad yet that's reality.
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• India
18 Oct 07
No, I dont think so.Your life is not a game.You are not a dice who has been thrown by the God and you cant help but always lie at the same side where you fall until it is changed by God.But i think you are a player whose every step will decide his fortune.If you do good to everybody,no bad can happen to you.If something good happens to you in life, it means somehow you may had done something good.You get good marks only if you study well and present yourself good during exam.If you think that you had not done any fault,still bad is happening to you,it means God is taking your test and he believes in you that you will pass this test,if you do it nicely,you will be favoured otherwise you will have to pay.So dont blame destiny or God anymore,its you who decide your future.Bright your present,your future will itselg be bright...
• Philippines
19 Oct 07
I do understand your point. Because all of us has different views in life especially in life. I know what you exactly mean that life is not a game at all. Yes, you've got a point because we are the master of our lives. We decide for ourselves, yet there are really some things that no matter how we control, still we can't.
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