Will you try to forget all sweet memories also with some who have hurt you?

@subha12 (18452)
India
October 10, 2007 11:20pm CST
Lets there were some golden days you spent with someone. You wanted to keep those days within your grasp. But if that person hurt you and you have no contact later with that person, what will you try? Will you try to forget those golden sweet memories or will you try to keep then alive in your haert? I am trying to forget those days which were actually not that much good in reality. What will you do?
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7 responses
@williamjisir (22900)
• China
11 Oct 07
I think that all of those memories, sweet or hurt, are not would be reminded under some certain circumstances though you don't want to remember some of the hurt memories. It is not what you want to, but it is part of the things that we have experienced.
• China
11 Oct 07
Sorry, I made a great typing mistake in the first sentence. Let me correct it becuase I don't want to confuse you, hehe. I think that all of those memories, sweet or hurt, would not be reminded unless I am reminded under some certain circumstances...
• China
1 Jul 08
I thank you so much for the best response, dear subha. Have a good day with always wonderful memories.
@azn_boo (36)
• United States
8 Jul 08
You cannot forget those memories. Their part of your life now. It comes back maybe when you're alone or maybe when you see things that maybe the same what had happened to you. It gives smile on your face when you remember those memories whether sweet or not.
@subathra (3519)
• India
12 Oct 07
As of me eventhough i have lot of sweet memories with someone who hurted my feelings i dont feel the happiness of cherishig them anymore..it has no life is what i feel..it doesnt bring any happiness rather its just a shadow of past memories hidden and comes out with time..
@laurika (4536)
• United States
11 Oct 07
I don't think so.Becuase later the pain will be gone and only those nice memories would stay with me.And I don't think we can forget, we can only forgive.
@sumitsonu (599)
• India
11 Oct 07
I will never forget that golden days with that person , because in life we should keep the good things and throw out the bad things, so even if the person hurts you, forget that person , but donot forget the moments which made you happy , which brought out the real you from you. I too have some very golden moments last year, as I got my best friend and that changed me a lot, but even i know that one day she will have to go leaving me alone, but that doesn't mean I will forget all those moments i spend with her. I even kept the gift that she presented me on my birthday, very safely . golden moments are said so because they can't and shouldn't be forgotten.
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
11 Oct 07
I try to let it go and not worry about the past. It just makes me feel bad about it espically if it didn't last. Sometimes I wish I had never met this person or the people that have hurt me in the past.
@2babita (1074)
• India
11 Oct 07
Well,it is very easy to say but I think we can't forget any sweet memories.Whether we keep the relation or not neither we forget the relation nor we forget the sweet memories.