r u ever able 2 hate whom u love?

Well,I think true love cannot be cheted and if the love is real then it cannot be X.I think real lovers never hate each other.

if you love why hate?

Hate and love are two opposite things.Like two sides of same coin.To whom you love,you can hate too.But that's not actually hating them.Its a feeling that why that person did this with me when I loved so much?Its not possible to hate that person,in fact if you feel you hate the person cause of some reason,and if they come back to you and say sorry.You'll forgive just cause you loved him/her. -AV

I had this relationship that lasted for about two years. i loved the man so much that I gave my all. But at the end he dumped me because he found someone new. He fell out of love with me. i am not suppose to get angry nor hate him for that because it is his right. And I cannot make him happy anymore since he no longer loved me. But i can't help it that time. i hated him so much. It took me few years before I forgiven him and totally forgot my hatred and anger. Now, i can laugh at the experience already. And how i hated him that time.

a very good question,before descussing the love between a girl and a boy,lets be sure about the meaning of a true love and its conditions,love between a girl and a boy in most cases are infatuation,and not a true love,ofcorse a true lover never hate his or her love,but the word we use as a love is so commonly user that may be we have forgotton the actual meaning of love n we think that the infatuation is only the love we know.its a vere deep topic to discuss.

I hate to admit it but it almost happened to me...not exactly to say that I hate him, I was just really pissed at him. I think the reason to hate your love one is when he/she does something dishonest like cheating on you, hurting you so much emotionally or the person is just being a plain jerk. Of course you love that person, but it doesnt mean that you dont love yourself right?

There's a saying that goes "nothing turns to hate so bitter as what once was love" I've thought about that. And I think the reason why it's so easy to hate the people you used to love is because when you love someone, you become vulnerable to them. They know all of these things about you, and once that person has decided that they don't want to be with you anymore, you're not sure what to do with all of that. Or it could be anger at things that person has done while you were in a relationship with him. Or it could be that you feel betrayed, because that person wanted out of the relationship and preferred someone else's company to yours. There are infinite reasons why people decide to break up, and very seldom is it amicable. There will always be hard feelings and hurt and loss, and that can lead to hatred if the person doesn't know how to deal with those feelings.