Past tense or present tense

@seabeauty (1480)
United States
October 11, 2007 12:41pm CST
When referring to someone in your past, do you say, "his name WAS" or do you say "his name IS". I was just thinking of this girl I knew in second grade and I am 40 now, don't know if this person is alive or dead but if I were to describe her I would say, "I knew a girl in second grade that used to tease me and her name IS Sonja." Is that proper to describe her in the present tense? I don't know if she is still alive so I say "is" just in case. Does it matter? Just curious. Hoping someone that is good at the English language could help me out here.
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
12 Oct 07
Hello,if you talk about someone long ago then its the past and you use "was".If its the present then you use "is".Eg:I knew a girl in second grade that use to tease me and her name was sonja".It does not matter if they are alive or not,its the time factor(past:WAS,present:IS,future:IS)that matters.:):)
@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Oct 07
Her name is -if she is alive.And her name was-if she is no more.That is what is right I think.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Oct 07
That was supposed to be addressed Seabeauty.Would you please pass it to her.
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