Would you have a relationship

United States
October 13, 2007 4:14am CST
knowing the guy that you are seeing is a homeless - jobless - no money - free loader that hops from home to home looking for a place to live off from? My brother in law said he has been seeing someone but have nothing to offer. I just can not picture in my mind who would even concider being a booty call for someone like that. Would you? hugs
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@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
16 Oct 07
Sorry I can not imaging ever getting saddled with someone like that again, I had an ex that believed the world owed him a living, and wanted it delivered to the door, he never accepted responsibility for his actions and is still living off another woman, I often want to send her a sympathy card, but she is no doubt saving some one else from him
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• United States
16 Oct 07
I know what you mean. My brother in law is like this and is now staying with us and he said that he is seeing a girl. I like the idea of the sympathy card must try that one. LOL love it hugs
@Margajoe (4718)
• Germany
13 Oct 07
LOL. Yes, I got one of those living with me. He is not a home to home looking to live off of others. But he seems to always have problems.LOL Has no job, works sometimes. Wants to work, wants to change. How could I love him? I don´t now, always said it would never happen to me. Maybe it is because I now he has nothing to offer, so he won´t go to other wemen so fast. Seeing as my last boyfriend (over 3 years) had other wemen in the last year we were together. I don´t trust normal men any more. I know it´s not right of me, because even us wemen cannot be trusted now a days. But still it is hard to trust. This man gives me self confidence. He loves me for who I am and helps me in many ways. Why do I love him? Because he made me believe he truly loves me. Take care.
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@steerforth (1802)
• Italy
16 Oct 07
I think that I can love a girl without home and without a job. It's not her fault if she is without a job. I can help her to find a work and I can offer to her something of my life. Love is these things, too. If I love her, I want to help her in her difficult moments and make a future toghether.
• United States
16 Oct 07
That is so sweet of a comment. I think that you must be the only gentalman on earth that still thinks that way. Even though I realize that most homes have to have both working to make a living I remember my mother not having to work while my father worked out side of the home and never once did he say that my mother had to seek work other then taking care of us children ( 6 of us ) and keeping up the house and best of all cooking my dads dinner in time for him to enjoy when he got home. My mother never complained about her chores and enjoyed every minute of taking care the home - family. I was sick alot as a child and my mother was right there when ever I needed her. Someone once asked her why she did not go out and have fun and she just stated that her life was fun and that she was doing what she wanted to do. Thank you for your reply as it was the best I have heard. Hugs