How I face this relationship, I love my boss...

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China
October 13, 2007 11:32pm CST
I have been in this city, this company for two years. And I was always the single. My boss took care of me so much that everyone in the company knew that. I found I have been in love with my boss. But he has wife and child. how i face this relationship. could i accept his love or just leave him?
2 responses
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
14 Oct 07
In my experience, I never the person who involves in triangle love will end with harmony. Most of them regret it, but it's too late. No more rewind part, the love more become a vicious snake bites for each party. If you had an affair, until higher stake of making love and lately get pregnant of his baby, the trauma is coming. You will fall in confusing, and so did he. But the burden is greater on the woman. Worst, later after problem occur, he said, he will choose his family (besides he has child, it makes his decision become confidently undeniable.) If lately, you are thinking of going to strike their love and cut off their family's rope. No one ever success, even he said love you. It will be more powerful his love for his family than you. You are just no more than his side-life when you are needed. This is sharp, but that's what those who had been there share with me. It's still not too late to reconsider, noticing that are already many bad result on this kind of affair. I know how your feeling is. Love is sometimes unconditionally comes and strike us, it is just like Cupid Angel shot us without notice. In the end, it's your own decision. If you still want to go with this relationship, you should be ready to face the consequences. Nothing can help you, only yourself later. "When rice becomes porridge, there are no more turning it back to rice anymore."
@reeseyj (906)
• United States
14 Oct 07
Are u serious. You dont go with a married man.You need to leave him alone. He is not going to leave his wife for you, he knows u r not a respectable woman so theres no way he would leave his family. If you want to live your life chasing after someone elses husband and being second thats on u but most woman who r with married men have self esteem issues or there just hoes who want no commitment. It doesnt sound like your a hoe because u say u love him but u need to love yourself more.You need to look at him the way he really is a selfish person. when a man cheats on his wife he is also cheating on his kids is that the kind of guy u want. He cheated on his wife and he'll do it to u. You need to have someone who gives all his love only to you and hes only yours isnt that what u want. Once u stop seeing him u will be much happier, I f relationship causes u stress u need to get out your cutting your life short. Well with most people it doesnt matter what anyone says your gonna do what u want and your being selfish too so maybe you belong together u r also not thinking of others. Well good luck.