How would you feel if your friend is the new girlfriend of your ex?

Philippines
October 15, 2007 9:05pm CST
To complicate the situation, you had a baby with your ex.
8 responses
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
well, it is more complicated than mine because you have the baby. if that's gonna happen with me i will feel bad.. and feel depressed... but my situation is my ex bf and her friend have a baby.. but still my ex choose me.. but the relationship doesn't work at all.. go girl.. u can show to them that ur responsible enough to deserve the baby..
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I would not like it if one of my friends dated my ex. However, if one of them were to date him, I would just tell them that I respect them as my friend but that I didn't want to get involved in any of there relationship issues.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
It's like the code of friendship that you never date your friends ex, who cares if it was the friend that dumped the person, you just don't do it.
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
i would definitely feel bad... my goodness!! even if were no longer together, he still is off limits to my friends...especially that we already have a baby..the key there must have been RESPECT! but i guess none of them has it...
• United States
16 Oct 07
I would be very upset and I would probably never be able to forgive either one of them especially if it was a close friend. The first thought that would cross my mind would be, was something going on before we split up? I would however try to get along with them for the childs sake. I have been in the situation where my parents didnt get along and it made me very uncomfortable and I felt that I had to agree with what one was saying about the other. Not a good thing for a child to be in the middle of
16 Oct 07
I would hate the situation .. a friend is a friend no matter what! and there is an unspoken rule that you dont go with your friends ex's I think a friend who does is a friend worth kicking to the kerb! .. Its the lowest of the low!
@cempires (171)
• United States
16 Oct 07
My 1st reaction would be that I have been Betrayed! After much thought, my 2nd and last reaction, and my response would be, $^%* $*& Betrayed Big Time!!! LOL
@wiccania (3360)
• United States
16 Oct 07
Well... My ex left me (and our 5 year old son) for the only other friend I had in the state of Colorado. I think that she deserves all of the bad things that have happened in her past to happen to her all over again only much more horrendously. That's how I feel. Needless to say... we aren't friends anymore. And we never will be again.