i donot know if he and i can grow together ?
October 16, 2007 10:28pm CST
my boyfriend and i know each other from the internet ,he is in canada ,i am in china ,i donot know if he and i can grow togeter ,we often chat on the MSN ,and i love him ,he can teach me many things ,he said he would come to shanghai to see me .but now he will go to changsha to work ,i donot know if he really love me or not?so i am very worried now.can you help me ?
17 Oct 07
There is no assurance my friend. You know how long distance is quiet impossible but there is nothing wrong with believing. There are some couples who met in the internet and now happily living together. Though I dont want to give you false hope, there are also risk. You know that you acn say anything on chat. I think you just talk to him.
22 Oct 07
YES I BELIVE HIM AND MYSELF ,I LOVE HIM ,WHEN HE DID NOT CONTECT WITH ME i will feel bad.my english is not good ,when i canot understand hime very well ,he can speak slowly .he care about me .understand me .so i want to wait for him still ,thank you very much
• United States
17 Oct 07
you know, it's easy to fall in love with the person that you think you know very well. How well do you really know someone that you meet on the internet? For all you know, he is something totally different than what you think. Just be careful. I know how easy it is to give your heart to someone and I just don't want to see you get hurt in the long run. If the two of you really love eachother though, then maybe it will work out for the two of you one day. It can't always be an internet relationship though. You need that person with you, to love you and to hold you. Good luck to you and let me know how things turn out
17 Oct 07
Thank you very much for you advice ,yes i love him ,i want him to come to see me ,to be with me ,to love me ,and to hold me ,but if like that he maybe say do you want to control me ?i donot know why he said i want to control him ,i donot want ,.i only had the chinese mind ,to be with the boyfrined ,but he did not want .so i donot know what to do . thank you again ,i will tell you the good news then
25 Oct 07
hello linda. i can relate to you reference to long distance relationships. i have had several. it is hard, you know that for a fact. the key word here is TRUST. But beyond the words, we have this sense, a feeling if it is truly for REAL.Others call this gut feeling, to women, it is you intuition. SO long as both of you are pronouncing love to each other, take it from here. The real test will be WHEN you both finally meet. This personal encounter can spell the difference and answer all your questions. I wish you the best....take care, Perry