Bookcovers and Children

@vicki2876 (5636)
Canada
October 17, 2007 9:42am CST
I grew up with a dad who is a huge reader. He was always into sci-fi, horror, and fantasy. It was nothing to see a bloody bookcover sitting at the back of the john. Well as an adult I have carried on the tradition. But recently my boyfriend pointed out a new book I am reading which has a skeleton couple on the cover. He thought it was wrong to have it in the view of the children. Now the kids know me and what I like and accept that of me. They are not preschoolers and know I like these books. I told him that it is good that the children see that I am a reader. That it encourages them to read. (he is ilterate) I asked if it was a romance (like what many moms read here) would it be different? And he said yes those are fine. But they have half naked pictures of couples on there so what is the difference if my book takes off just a bit more, like skin? I think it is silly to stop reading the types of books I like. Jessica read lots of books about animals, Clayton reads lots of books on science, colton reads a lot of books about superheros and cars. Do you think I should cover up the books? Would that draw more attention to it like I am reading something "dirty"? Do you think it doesn't matter because it is good they see adult readers?
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
17 Oct 07
I grew up with all kinds of different books around me. I love books. I've never even thought about the covers of books being possibly disturbing or not child-friendly. I don't think I would cover up my book covers around my child. If he seemed actively afraid of one of them, I might explain to him that it's just a book, etc. I would probably then put it where he didn't have to see it if it was really bothering him. But I can't imagine hiding my books and/or covering them up on a regular basis just because my kid might see them. That seems a little extreme.
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@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
18 Oct 07
I agree, I have never covered up any books and the children were never afraid or scare of any of them. They have asked me what the book was about or if it was good. They look at it as normal for me and it has always been around them. The guy is getting picky I think. LOL
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@Pompon (1757)
• Poland
17 Oct 07
No, I don't think you should cover it. There's no reason. I think if it didn't have any traumatic effect on you why should it have on other children:P I think it is good they see adults reading. And I think it's good to read them books too. Books for children of course^_^ I think htese days poeple spread some kind of propaganda that children brains are as fragile as glass and they can be destroyed very quickly. It's not true. It all depends from their parents and how they are able to explain them what they need to know.