Do you confess your fault, when, why?

@deserve40 (1656)
India
October 18, 2007 9:08am CST
We all make mistakes, some intentionally and some unintentionally. We hurt our loved ones many a times. Many times if we confess our fault then the problem is avoided. But our non-confession may lead to end of the relationship. Now do you confess when you are wrong? Why do you feel you should confess?
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5 responses
• United States
18 Oct 07
Once a guy came to my house in the middle of the night, he was drinking, he was a friend I thought of my mans, he sat on my sofa talking very politely.My kids was up and sat there the whole time.Finally the drunk talked his self to leave.I told my man everything! He said he wished I hadn't told him.He beleive in his own head we fooled around even though our kids was right there the whole time! We spilt up for two weeks cause of me telling the truth.But ask me if I would tell the truth again, confess everything, yes, I would, cause God would want you to be truthful.
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
Hi Lady! It seems that your man is insecure and judgmental of you. Good that your are courageous to speak the truth. Continue that good trait of yours.He will just learn his lesson in life in your daily encounters.
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@Sharon38 (1915)
• Jamaica
18 Oct 07
Men can be so foolish at times. Continue to be truthful girl nothing is wrong with that.
@Linarae (27)
• United States
18 Oct 07
I believe in being striaght from the beginning when I screw up. Let's them see that I'm not above making mistakes and puts it on them to accept my imperfections or not. STOP LOOKING AROUND. I DID IT!
@Sharon38 (1915)
• Jamaica
18 Oct 07
I confess them because if I dont do it I would have a guilty conscience to live with. Therefore in confessing I am allowing the other party to know that I know I have done wrong, I have forsaken it and am now seeking forgiveness in order for the relationship to move past that stage of distrust. Too bad if he/she does not want to forgive me but I would have been honest and true to our friendship.
• China
18 Oct 07
to be frank,i often make mistakes and do stupid thing.but i rarely confess my fault.espcialy confess my fualt in front of my mother.i think it is difficult to say sorry to my parents.sometimes i feel guilty,but i do not dare to say sorry to my mother.
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
Hi! First, I confess my mistakes to my God which I always do, then to the person concerned. It takes great courage to confess to a person because of each pride, but I always counter it and I always ended with a light conscience. My friends told me they like me because I tell them the truth.