Who apologise/Compromise ... When there is a fight..Is it the boys or girls ????
By subathra
@subathra (3519)
India
October 18, 2007 10:47am CST
This is a interesting topic for discussion Some will say most of the time it is the girls who make up first after a
fight because they get fed up of fighting and arguing.Another group will say it is the boys who can not wait without talking to his partner for petty issue.
In my opinion it differs from individual to individual . If a person is forgiving kind be it a boy or a girl will take the needed steps to put an end for the unnecessary dispute with least possible delay. When a person value the relationship highly definitely will come out of his or her ego and will not allow the situation go beyond control. It does not a matter who is at fault .After all human makes mistakes and learn things quickly.
In your personal opinion what do you feel ..whether its the boys or girls who ends up fight and come down for compromise? You can also give the ratio added to your response..lets see who tops up this survey..whether the boys or the girls...
6 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
23 Oct 07
Dear Suba,
sure its intresting topic and u might be getting lot of response
u r also right its not necessary that Boy or Girls always take first step to resolve issue. Any one who is compromising and caring (either boy or girl) will take initiative.
In my personal opinion, Boys are mostly taking first step as girls has best weapon, thats TEARS, LOL, no offense to girl, but a tear in girls eye can change the world
take care girls
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
25 Oct 07
Hi dear, u r right, but it might not be real cry, may be they know power of water drop in their eyes and know how to use them effectively
and sure its not valid for all, may be to few
but girls have more soft heart so they take inititaive
but where ego come(i would rather say fake ego) either its boy or girl, things get difficult and one of important reason that relation breaks
Take care
@yanstill (1490)
• China
23 Oct 07
i agree with your point.
maybe that depends on the characters of different people.take myself for an example.i am that kind that even i know i am wrong i will not apologize until he apologize first,then i will admit my mistake.i am not easy to compromise,and i dont like that.of course it pays.sometimes a small thing can turn to a big deal,and i know i just need to explain something,everything will be okay,but i am just hesitate to do it.
in this survey,i choose boys.
@ssh123 (31071)
• India
18 Oct 07
It depends on who is right and who is wrong. It also depends on maganimity and catholicity of a person. There are persons who tender apologies even though they have not made any mistake, just for the sake of humaane approach to relationships. So if the boys are soft, they may tender the apologies and vice versa. Sometimes, the wrong people stick on to their poles and never say sorry.
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@mansha (6298)
• India
25 Oct 07
I agree with you you can not generalise these thoings but I do believe girls start getting emotional about the fight sooner then the boys and I have even heard guys telling oh! its okay and part of life-she will coe around while girls shed a few tears and then accept their unconcern and forgive them for the sake of peace without their even asking for it. I will say girls try to make peace more often then the boys.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
19 Oct 07
Well, for me it would depend. If the girl is the one who commits mistake then she should be the one to fix things. But if its the boy, then he should be the one. Or even if you are not the one, then you could be the one to start the approach, and then explain and fix things. In that way things would be in better place. There will be lesser fights between the two sexes.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
24 Oct 07
Hi,
That gender wise approach in this matter I hope it is the character and attitute one possess. Each individual has his own reaction and these reactions also varies according to the like and dislike he has to a person. Here apology and compromise entirely individual part more than connecting to a particular gender. Only main difference might be the apology will have either a femine touch or not.
