He again beat me tonight.

@laurika (4536)
United States
October 18, 2007 3:02pm CST
No, don't take it so seriously.It is about how my man accditentally beat me thorught the night.I went to the bed and he slept already.So I lie down beside him and wait till I fall in sleep.But again how he was turning around his hand with no control(just like when you sleep)fall in my face.It kinda hurt.No becuase it was powerfull, but just like when you hand is relaxed and fall on you.I hate it when he do things like this, but he is saying I am only dreaming that.The best is when I am trying to fall in sleep for two hours and then he just move in the bed and land with his hand on my nouse.Oh, it makes me so mad.So any sugestions?Should I tight his hands?Or put handcuffs on him, while he sleep?lol
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15 responses
18 Oct 07
we actually sleep in seperate rooms cause my man moves constantly and snores like a bear plus our bed sucks but it works out great and we have an extra room and he goes to bed hours before i do because he works like 12 to 14 hour days and this way he gets his rest and i get mine and our relationship is just fine and alot of couples do it
@AmbiePam (51193)
• United States
18 Oct 07
Can you set up a camera to record him? That way he would have visual proof. That sounds incredibly painful!
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@zidlore (251)
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
That's a good idea! I wonder how the person seeing himself in the cam reacts.
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@laurika (4536)
• United States
18 Oct 07
That is incredible idea.The problem is I don't have a camera.It is not really painful, it just distrurb me and I got so mad all the time.I had really hard time to fall in sleep and he just would wake up me.Grrrrrrrr..
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@AmbiePam (51193)
• United States
18 Oct 07
Do any of your friends own a camera? Even a cell phone that contains a video camera?
@smacksman (6074)
18 Oct 07
We stayed in a friends cottage in the Welsh mountains last week. It was soooo lovely - the best place in the world. BUT!!!! Our bed was very small in a very small room and for the first time in a very long time I would wake up with my wife's hand in my face and I expect I did the same to her. Now while it was very nice to snuggle up to her luscious body (that is another subject - haha) I realised that we just needed a bigger bed. Happy slumbers!!
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@laurika (4536)
• United States
18 Oct 07
We have king size bed, does exist there a bigger one?Hmm, maybe I should surf on the internet and start looking for one.lol
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
19 Oct 07
Actually, there is a bigger bed. It is called the California King.
@laurika (4536)
• United States
19 Oct 07
Ok, thank you.I never hear about it.
@lightningMD (5932)
• United States
18 Oct 07
Maybe you guys need twin beds. That way you could ummmm snuggle in one bed, then when it was time to sleep you could each have your own bed. Then there is no way of disturbing each others rest.
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@AmbiePam (51193)
• United States
18 Oct 07
Kinda like The D*ck van D*ke show. Well, they managed to have Ritchie, so they found ways around the barrier.: ) By the way, mylot made me put the* in the word mentioned above. It violated their code, LOL.
@ravinskye (8242)
• United States
18 Oct 07
my husband used to do that to me all the time. The only thing that worked for us was to get a bigger bed so he had more room. We switched from a full sized bed to a queen sized. that seemed to do the trick. he works so much lately though that he doesn't move as much in his sleep.
@laurika (4536)
• United States
18 Oct 07
Hmm we have king size bed.Don't know what to do.Maybe move him to the living room on the couch.lol
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• United States
19 Oct 07
LOL You had me going there with the title girl. Im thinking WTF?? Well how about getting a bigger bed? I think me and my man need a bigger bed, we toss and turn too much. Bay xx
@laurika (4536)
• United States
21 Oct 07
lol I knw it would be good title.You know what ?I came with better idea.He always fall in sleep in couch and I have to wake him up most the time to go the bed.What about I would let him sleep there all night and all bed would be for me..?Great idea, don't think so?but shhhh, you cannot say him anything.lol
• United States
21 Oct 07
Shhh, dont you worry girl I wont tell him a thing! You can count on me. Dont you think he will be upset when he wakes and sees you left him on the couch? I know my man wouldnt be too happy. lol Bay xx
@laurika (4536)
• United States
21 Oct 07
I would say I try really hard, but he was mean to me for waking him up, so I let him there.This really happen often, he fall in sleep there and I try to wake him up and he is all mad why I am bothering him.grrrrrrrr, those men
@balasri (26549)
• India
19 Oct 07
Make a game.For every hit you make you got to pay ten dollars and ten for what he makes.He will stop hitting realizing how expensive it is.How is that?
@laurika (4536)
• United States
19 Oct 07
That is great idea.I would be rich soon like this lol
@balasri (26549)
• India
20 Oct 07
What would be my share commission for this wonderful idea.LOL.
@laurika (4536)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Uhm, I would think about it, ok?lol
@suspenseful (40314)
• Canada
19 Oct 07
Get a King Sized Bed. The bed you have is way too small. Push his hand away when it lands on you. You might have to change positions, like you being on the outside. Oh that won't work either! He might turn around. I will think of something. How about, going up a little higher in the bed so you are about even face wise?
@laurika (4536)
• United States
19 Oct 07
We have king size bed.I think our bed is really huge.
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@Razzles (479)
• United States
19 Oct 07
Ouch! I feel so bad for you. I think I would sleep in a separate bed if my loved one was like that. You can't live your life wondering if this hand is going to go on your face again. You were lucky this time. The next time, this hand can crush your brain. You do have a choice. Take it , for life's sake.
• United States
19 Oct 07
Sleep on the couch if that's the only other place you can sleep for now, and when he asks why, tell him It has nothing to do with the relationship and you love him but you're protecting your face from injury. When he sees that you're serious and it's not a joke that he's accidently hitting you, he might then come out of denial about it. Don't do it while he's awake, but instead of getting in bed next to him and not being able to sleep, go to the couch and let him find you there when he gets up.
• China
19 Oct 07
You should get stronger,ever if you love him,but you should believe that,if he loves you he would be not like this for you,so you thought you should bu good under you and the relationship him and your furthur life.You should for their own well-being efforts.
• China
19 Oct 07
Muse bi strong,come on!
@drannhh (15235)
• United States
19 Oct 07
Maybe you two need a bigger bed. Mine is funny like that when he takes up 3/4 of the bed and then says I am on his side. I even put a little decoration in the middle to show where the halfway point really is. I don't mind him on my side, but then he says I should move over because I am on his side and there is no place to mover over, except to get up and go around and sleep on his side, and then I really WOULD be on his side, lol. When they are snoring, these men kick, too, don't they? Can't live with them, can't live without them. I don't think handcuffs would help, as then you get bopped with the metal. Ouch!
@laurika (4536)
• United States
19 Oct 07
Oh yeah mine do the same thing.I am on the edge almost fall from the bed and he is telling me to move, becuase he doesn't have enough place.lol.I was trying to make halfway point too, but he looks at me like I am crazy, so I didn't put there anything.
@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
27 Jan 08
Wow...the only suggestion I'd have is to try to sleep facing away from him or on your stomach. When I was young I was a kicker...I'd kick the daylights out of anyone that I slept with (my baby brother or my Mom). When she was pregnant with my baby brother I had to sleep on the couch b/c I would kick her terribly without meaning to. I don't think I do it anymore or if I do, Hubby hasn't said anything about it. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
@cobradene (1171)
• India
21 Oct 07
Maybe you should do the Basic Instinct style, tie his hands to the bed like Sharon Stone. Just a light one. No serious offense.
• China
19 Oct 07
I think you can hold a obstacle like a carpet or some clotheses between you and your husband ,so that he will not beat you when he is sleeping .
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
19 Oct 07
I suggest you sleep in another bed, room, house, city, state, country, world or planet. Whatever it takes to stop being abused in the night. Even when it is an accident, this can be traumatizing. I would have problems falling to sleep next to him, knowing that his could happen.