my friend is in denial of love
October 19, 2007 5:41am CST
this is very interesting as one of my friend married for last 9 yrs got in to touch with much younger male on a social networking site ,she went to the extent of exchanging phone no. that guy kind of hounded her she told him she doesn't love him she was just hoping a friendship with him after a while he has completely shut himself of and now she is feeling guilty of hurting a nice guy and she is losing her sleep and she messaged me last night a 3 a.m just see the extent ,i'd say she is happily married with avery sonny bonny boy. i think she is in love which is not going to realise this life ,pls. help and give some suggestion to get her out from this.
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23 Oct 07
To be frank.i feel this kind of relationship is not healthy...and its not right..being a friend pls advise your friend and make her realise that she is married and living happily and not to spoil that wonderful relationship and trust her husband had towards her..If she maintains a friendly relationship with that guy from the beginning its fine..but this will not work out..ask her to forget this incident and stop communicating with him anymore to lead a peaceful life.
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19 Oct 07
I do not understand why she is holding conversations with men if she is married for 9 years..She should be feeling guilty for leading someone on.She needs to be up front and tell the man she is married and that she just wanted to be friends,and if not don't talk to him anymore...