Ideas for a birthday Party on a budget ?? - It will be our son's FIRST birthday

@ricknkae (1721)
United States
October 19, 2007 4:14pm CST
It will be our son's first birthday soon and we would like to celebrate it ... but we are on a strict budget So do you have any tips, tricks, ideas ... to make a memorable birthday party without spending too much? All ideas greatly appreciated - thank you
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@Wingedman (238)
• United States
20 Oct 07
I've got a number of friend and they have all said, "Don't bother to do anything big for birthday 1. They won't remember it anyway" In fact scientists claim that the first three years of a kids life are really blurry and come to think of it, do you remember your first birthday at this point. I would say, surround them with love, family and friends. That doesn't cost a thing.
@ricknkae (1721)
• United States
24 Oct 07
yes I ll do it in the afternoon, it is a good idea that several fellow mylotters suggested I guess the first birthday is a moment more for the parents than for the kid ;)
• Philippines
22 Oct 07
i totally agree that from 1-3 years old, a child wont remember much about birthdays, they would love birthday parties once their 4-7, so you might as well keep it simple with close friends and relatives. Children are easy to please,hotdogs, spagetties,cakes but adults are hard to please,they would mind about the food that you served and if you only serve the simple ones, they may criticized the party and spoil the fun. What is important is marking your son's first year milestone. Do it at home so you wont have to spend more and go for party sale item to stick with the budget. I also agree doing it mid afternoon that way even serving cocktail food wont be that much too spend,rather than lunch or dinner.
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
20 Oct 07
most children do not remember first second or even third birthdays, so you do not have to go overboard for his sake.A cake with a candle would be nice and can be purchased at the day old counter at most supermarkets for less than half the price of a fresh one. as well a cake mix and ice cream will work as well. If you have friends over it can be cake and coffee for the adults and cake and cool aid for the kids, as for a gift a small toy from the dollar store will suffice. and stop with the guilt trips you are doing the best you can with circumstances that permit. All will be well
@ricknkae (1721)
• United States
24 Oct 07
thank you for your encouragements and I 'll make a trip to the dollar store ...
@trinihd (996)
• United States
19 Oct 07
No matter what you do, your son is not likely to remember much except maybe crying over the cake...so you might want to consider that in your planning! :) Make sure he gets to play in the cake whatever you do...it's the most fun he will probably have...that is actually birthday related! LOL I think the amount you spend is directly related to how much people you invite...so you should definitely trim the guest list if you want to save! If it's just you and your spouse and your son, then saving will have to be on the decorations and on the amount of money you spend on the cake! You could try baking it yourself if you feel you are up to it...or get grandma to donate...although you would have to invite her then...so if you weren't planning on inviting her, that could prove to be "sticky", no pun intended! :) If I wanted to save money on beverages I would avoid serving expensive fruit juices and stick to iced teas, which you can make very cheaply yourself, or fruit-flavoured water like they mention in the book "Green parties" (I forgot who the author is)...and I think it was on GMA. You can save on food cost by serving small sandwiches instead of an actual big dinner meal...and I guess timing is important for this to work, because if you invite people around dinner time, they might expect dinner! :) For "cheap" memories, you can get a hold of a digital camera to take photos and then only print the ones you like, and if you use an online printing service, you may actually save by getting free prints for signing up...(usually they do that, if not there is always the referral, which I can send you) but that's not going to save you a whole lot. I typed in "cheap party ideas" on blackle.com and the first link was a page full of tips to help you save...you could try that search and/or similar searches to get some useful tips. I hope you have a blast and make memories to last forever!!
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@ricknkae (1721)
• United States
19 Oct 07
very true yes the guest list is highly trimmed lol ... but I woudl still like something memorable ... and for the pictures I like your idea ... and I will definately search cheap part ideas ... that s a gret idea !!lol thank you
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
20 Oct 07
ok, i understand that it's not that easy to have a good party with a very strict budget..my daughter's first birthday was a good party with lots of children but with a very budgeted food..we have cake, one dozen of balloons, 2kls of spaghetti, bread, hotdogs on a stick and juice and some candies for give aways..it's just like that..we don't invite lots of children, it's just children of my closed friends and other neighbors and relatives, but all was happy and contented..it's just a children party, more children are there than mothers...hope it can help you..good luck..
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@ricknkae (1721)
• United States
14 Nov 07
Just wanted to thank everyone for their ideas and tips The party was a success and I didn't spend too much I think everyone had a good time especially the kids ... which is the most important I m so happy :D
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
20 Oct 07
We just celebrated my daughter's 4th birthday party a couple of weeks ago. We had it in one of the restaurants here in the Philippines that served kiddie parties. We spent about 6000pesos, that would be a little less than 150USD. It was a simple party, the food didn't cost that much, there was a small birthday cake, birthday party hats and some giveaways too. The best thing in that party was the mascot that joined the party, because that was made all the kids enjoy the party, most especially my baby! Here's a little video of that party where everyone had fun! http://www.paulynramirez.com/a-jollibee-birthday-party-the-video-clip/
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@ricknkae (1721)
• United States
23 Oct 07
nice video! looks like evryone ahd fun indeed Bu ti really don't have the budget to do it outside though ... i ll stay home Thank you so much though for your video ;-)
@cynddvs (2948)
• United States
19 Oct 07
We've had a small budget for my daughters birthdays as well. A big thing I've done to save money is to have her parties at my house. This saves on having to rent a place. If you are planning on having a theme for his party just buy one pack of plates, napkins, etc. If you need anymore then that just go the cheap route and buy the extra from the dollar store. I promise noone will care. And try to plan the party at a time when you don't have to serve a lot of food. We are having my daughters party at 3 in the afternoon. That way everyone will have already had lunch and it won't be quite time for dinner. I'm just going to slide by on cheap appetizers. And if anyone offers to bring anything take them up on it.
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@ricknkae (1721)
• United States
23 Oct 07
yes thank you those are very good tips and yes I had planned to do it at home ... cheaper and more convenient too!