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maddy, drugs, car wreck - car wreck, drugs, maddy
United States
October 20, 2007 9:03pm CST
I'm back, My cousins drugged up wife almost killed their baby in a car wreck last Sunday night. Thats why I've been gone the last week. She was on a drug run at 2:30 in the morning and was high, lost control and hit a tree. After 6 hours of surgery, the doctors put the baby's head back together and only by a miracle she made it through. Once she was released from the hospital, she was at the grandparents house with my cousin for a few days. He was taking care of her but Friday after not sleeping at all since the accident, he was going to get clothes from his house and he got into a wreck. He had had 2 surgeries. The second one today, he hasn't been able to breathe on his own yet. His injuries are to his arm mainly. The doctors are telling us that he will be able to use his arm fairly well and he should have a full recovery. He is having trouble breathing now because of an infection. His wife has already taken the baby (The injured baby, just out of the hospital)and fled to another state and she will end up being arrested and goodness knows how all of it will end up. Their other child has been taken to a family friend for safe keeping so the mother won't take her too and flee the state. Please pray for these kids...And my cousin! I want him to get his life straight and put his kids first. I hope this shows him that his kids should be first in his life. If this doesn't do it, I don't know what will!!! God help us all!!!!
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9 responses
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Oh my, I am so sorry to hear all of this. I know how very difficult this must be on you and I will be praying for you. God will see you through this and things will work out for the best. I have faith in that. please keep us posted on how things are going. if you ever need to talk or anything i'm always on here at night, so just let me know. God bless! If God is for us, who can be against us
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• United States
22 Oct 07
Thank you for your PRAYERS... I do know it helps. It's all I can believe in right now! Thank you so much!!!
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@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
21 Oct 07
oh gosh, im so sorry to hear about your cousin and his children, its really sad when they have parents like their mother is treating them. it is really sad. i hope the baby recovers well and both children get brought back with their father, sounds like he is much better person then the mother is. lets hope the mother doesnt decide to do anything silly.
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• Australia
23 Oct 07
i wish your cousin all the best. good luck.
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• United States
22 Oct 07
I'm hoping it will all work out as well... It's ashame parents don't realize children are the special gifts they are... My cousin was just taken off the resperator today. He is doing better than he was... I think it will take time to recover from the two surgeries mostly. He was hurt really bad. He is upset about the baby being taken out of the state but his dad and grandmother are getting a good lawyer and CPA is involved.
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@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Oh wow I read this and that is so horribale... what an awful thing for your family to go though I hope that they find I hope that they will find the wife and the baby so the baby can be somewhere safe, I will keep you all in my prayers
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• United States
22 Oct 07
Thanks for the prayers and thanks for caring... It's so nice to know people do care ...Bless you ... Thanks so much
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• United States
21 Oct 07
It seems like you hear more and more stories like this all the time! I am so sorry for your family and the kids, but hopefully they will soon catch the mom and all will be well. I hope that your cousin gets his life together and that the children stay safe. Your family will be in my thoughts and prays! Good luck to you all!
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• United States
22 Oct 07
Thanks so much for your kind words and prayers... We appreciate it so very much!!!
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@student7 (1002)
• United States
21 Oct 07
My thoughts are with you and your family. My question is why didn't they arrest the baby's mom for DUI? I hope they get her before anything bad happens. I will say a prayer, I hope that this whole incident will open your cousin's eyes and he seeks help. God Bless you and your family and the baby who was injured in the car accident.
• United States
21 Oct 07
That is just awful. when one bad thing happens it seems like they just keep rolling in. I feel so sorry for those poor innocent children. I just want you to know that I am praying for you all and with Gods help all things are possible.
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• United States
22 Oct 07
It does seem like that, doesn't it... I'm thankful for the prayers and the nice friends... Thanks so much...
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
27 Feb 08
Wow...sounds like he needs to get away from her and quickly too. I hope the kids are allright and that he's better by now. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Oh God please have mercy on us! I'm so shocked silly right now and lost for words. I'm so incredibly sorry to hear about this and will be praying for you night and day. For what it's worth, please call this number, it's a Christian group in which all you do is call them and tell them your story and that you need prayers. When one is in need and you need prayer chains started this is one remarkable way to do so. The people are so wonderful to talk to over the phone and they pray with you and for you. I've had to call them a couple of times and Mom has too a few times and they're just wonderful caring people! The number is 1-800-NOW-PRAY (1-800-669-7729)
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• United States
22 Oct 07
Thanks for the number... I've given it to my family members and we all will call. At times like this, Prayers are needed most. We appreciate everyone so much... more than we know words to say...
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• United States
23 Oct 07
Damn, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that both children will end up being ok, and that your cousin will get out of that coma soon! My prayers will be with you, your cusin and for those children. Please do keep us posted on how those kids are and how your cusin is doing, Ok? You take care of yourself and Please stay safe! May God be with you and your family.
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• United States
24 Oct 07
My cousin isn't in a coma but he is getting better. Thanks for reading and thanks for the kind words.