Who would you choose between a person you love and a person who loves you?

Philippines
October 20, 2007 9:20pm CST
If you were to marry someone, who would you choose? given: (1)a person who loves you very much, but you dont love and (2)a person you love very much but doesnt love you in return
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5 responses
• India
9 Nov 07
If u love a person so much amd tht person doesnt respect ur love,.. and with tht u dont respect others love.. than why u deserve to have love in ur life... if tht person hs given justice to ur..love,.. to u should give the person love some respect.. atleast give her a chance..might be tht person ne a perfect a match for u
• China
4 Nov 07
maybe i'll choose the first one,i think the person love you is more important,of course,i hope we love each other!and what's your choice?
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
21 Oct 07
hmmmm...it's difficult, but when it comes into reality and practicality, i think i would choose the person who loves me than a person whom i love but theres no love to me because i'm sure i can learn to love the person who has feelings to me, and i'm sure that he will do anything for me to become happy and that's the important thing..i don't want to be hurt anymore and have loose hopes..
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Neither. It is not necessary to settle for the better of two bad things, as that choice would only end up hurting someone. It is necessary to wait until you find someone who loves you AND you also love them very much. Deciding on love is not like thinking about which movie to see on a Saturday night or selecting a color of paint for the car. It is a lifetime commitment between two people, both of whom deserve honesty, sensitivity, kindness, and consideration. After choosing each other, you will both grow and change as you mature, so it is necessary to choose someone who will grow more or less in the same direction and not away from you.
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Neither...I would wait for that special person who I not only loved, but was loved in return. Why settle for anything else. Love should be a two way thing and I believe that there is always that special someone that will love and respect you in return