I have not been here in a while

@AnnaB7 (757)
United States
October 21, 2007 3:30pm CST
And I have been under a little stress the last several months. Some things are getting better but some things will never get better. We lost our oldest son in May due to a hit and run driver. I do not know what of anything will be done about that. Also my husband lost his job, and now we have another son who will be joining the military. Sometimes life is just busy and stressful I suppose. Anyway, this week will likely be another difficult week, and busy. Tommorrow will be five months since our son was killed. trust me you never ever want to find your child dead for any reason, but especially if it happens to be after they have been hit and killed by a car. That left the scene, that still gives me nightmares. Anyway, as far as things go we are all doing okay, and school is coming along. Things are a little better now than they were. We will be going out to church shortly. So I'll try to get back after a bit. I hope you all are doing okay.
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@dbmax41 (585)
• United States
22 Oct 07
So sorry to hear this. Sometimes we have to just live in the moment. (easyer said than done) Things always get better though. Life throws wicked curves and what dont kill us make us stronger. You mention going to church. Thats great. Not many people say this in public anymore. We should be talking about it often. Faith has always been one of my helpers. Stay in contact with the police about the case. Sometimes they just give up so I hope they dont. I have rough times in life as I have rheumatoid arthritis. I also have a friend that is a quadropoligic. I think of how she lives when I feel depressed or sorry for myself. Always helps. Keep your head high. dbmax41
@jesus777 (664)
• Bermuda
22 Oct 07
farther god in the name odf jesus i lift up annab7 right now i dont know her lord but you know who she is i lift up her and her family to you right now lord i ask that you comfort them right now lord i ask that you wrpa your loving arms them lord to let them know you are there and lord i pray that you will bless them in every area of life meet every need jesus just move by your holy spirit have your way jesus in jesus name i pray amen!!!!! i have not lost a child but i have lost famiyl members through murder and stuff so i understnad to some degree how you feel!!!!!!
@hopejordan (3566)
• Australia
22 Oct 07
hi there anna i am sorry he is with god now sorry if i said something wrong but i think he is in heaven it must be hard loosing a child i hope everything is ok with your family ok. and must me hard for your husband as well looing a child and loosing a job i hope he gets another job soon and god bless you my name is anna too but my username is hopejordan hope is my little girls name is hope she is 7 turning 8 soon. my son is 11 years old his name is jordan
@deebomb (15319)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Oh Anna I can't think af any thing that would be worde than lossing a child for any reason let alone by a hit and run. You have my deepest sympthoy. I know how hard it is to have a son go into the military. My oldest son spent 20 year in the service and every time there was a conflict I had my heart in my mouth. but for some reason he never got to go. He was a drill sargent during the first gulf war so they kept him here training the boys and girls. He was good at it because he wanted to make sure they all came back. sometimes life just plain sucks but God is always there for us and he doesn't give us more than we can handle. Just keep the faith and You will get through it.