how do you get over a heart ache?

Philippines
October 23, 2007 5:28am CST
I know they say time heals all wounds but who needs time when you're heart broken?How do you get over an ex-boyfriend when you have to face him practically everyday? It hurts to see a love that was once there but is not there now. We used to be so close and now we're practically like strangers.
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@hillock (749)
• Qatar
24 Oct 07
it takes time to heal. and dear u cant move on if u practically see each other everyday[if it happens that u still love him].
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• Philippines
24 Oct 07
Its true TIME really heals all wounds...i had experienced also what you are experiencing right now...it is very hard to forget the person whom you love and admire for over a long years..at first you dont know what to do..it seemed that your life stopped for a moment..but time really heals all wounds..right now we worked in the same institution but we greet each other..i must admit i still love him but he is happy now with someone..so im trying to find someone who can love me as who i am, who can accept me.. its not yet the end of the world LIFE must go on..i know after that broken relationship i can say i became more stronger..it taught me a lesson that if you love someone prepare yourself to be hurt and leave love for yourself..
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@michfroi (413)
• Philippines
23 Oct 07
its really hard to get over with the break up, but in this situation, you need to face and accept the reality... you have to prove him that hes not a big lost... and u must always think that if you have been apart with the one you love, accept the fact that youre not meant for each other....
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• Philippines
23 Oct 07
I believe that time heals broken-heart.First, you have to forgive the person.Then as much a spossible, try to get in touch with your freinds, go-out with them, have fun with them.By dping that, you will eventually forget your past or your ex, and get over of your heartache.You also have to think that all of us get heartache, it's just a matter of how you carry the burden.Cheer-up.
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• India
23 Oct 07
This is a damn hard situation to be in. The only thing to get over such problems is in making yourself understand few things. First of all accept the fact that he is a stranger to you, i know it is hard if you are ditched.... but look at it in this way that he didnt deserve to be with you adn that is why you aint with him!!! Put your efforts and concentration in other things....... be successful, that is the best way to slap him!!! Involve yourself with other people, make new friends, if you see a spark somewhere dont think of ur ex just go for it!!! make this new relationship your dream one........ Take care, and be good!!! i hope you are out of this soon.
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@dee670 (5)
• Northern Mariana Islands
10 Mar 08
Well you know it does hurt but just give it time and then you will get used to seeing them in a way that does not have to do with hurt. He doesnt have to be a total stranger to you but you need to learn how to forgive and forget because everything happens for a reason.