Men's Preferences
By worldwise1
@worldwise1 (14885)
United States
October 24, 2007 6:49pm CST
I was just watching an actor being interviewed on one of the popular tabloid shows. He was asked a question that I often hear them ask these guys: What do you prefer in someone you're dating-breast or butt? He responded-butt. This drew my mind back to a time when I had been with my guy for several years. His friend was over one day and happened to remark that my guy was a "butt man." This made me curious as to why he was with me, because I don't have anything outstanding in that respect. When I asked him, he just tried to shrug the question off, but it really bothered me for a long time. After that I would find myself trying to watch unobtrusively whenever we were in the presence of a woman who had that particular attribute. Has anything like this ever bothered you?
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@ElusiveButterfly (45941)
• United States
25 Oct 07
I know my hubby is a butt man. He didn't think I noticed how he would look to a woman's behind as she was walking away. My ex-husband would break his neck to check out a woman, especially if she had big boobs. These primitive actions no longer bother me. I have told my husband that if he thinks he has even the slightest chance with any other woman to go ahead, but not to return if he did.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
25 Oct 07
I hear you, Elusive! Some men don't find anything wrong when it's them doing the looking, but they don't want you doing the same thing.
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@babostwick (2036)
• United States
25 Oct 07
As a guy I've never been asked that question. I don't know what I would say. It's one of those questions that's gonna have a different answer. I've heard sometimes it's a mixture of the two but who knows. Maybe a good mix would work for me but also what kind of person they are is what will decide it in the end.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
25 Oct 07
Well, babostwick, it's nice of you to be so diplomatic. As a woman I've often heard women state their preferences in men and it perplexes me. I always judge each one on their individual attributes.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
26 Oct 07
I never give it that much thought.If your guy is attracted to you , just the way you are, that's what matters.
@ChaJudLeoBit (1656)
• United States
25 Oct 07
Well in that respect, I have plenty in both areas. But when guy talk about wanting or being attracted to women with a model's build, I get bothered by that. I certainly don't have that, cuz I got plenty all around. My butt gets the most attention, though.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
25 Oct 07
That's the way I've always carried myself, ChaJudLeoBit. I have never doubted that I looked good enough, but nobody wants to be compared to someone else.
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