Why can't the person we are attracted to can't be easily be our love one?

@svelte (132)
Philippines
October 25, 2007 12:21am CST
It is common in life that when we are attracted to someone, that one person is so difficult to reach and obtain. Why can't life and love be easy? Why is it so hard to reach and obtain the greatest thing we like and love? Do we always have to pursue the important things in our life especially love?
2 responses
@eskay007 (72)
• Israel
25 Oct 07
The reason is because we are not attracted to things that we can easily reach and obtain.Human beings by nature love challenges, we cherish victory and winning. we also tend to appreciate more and value things that we get through difficulty than those we get easily.
• United States
25 Oct 07
I don't think love would be that interesting if it wasn't a little bit challenging and complicated!! It's like solving a really hard crossword puzzle or hiking a mountain (it's extremely dificult along the way and you face many obstacles but in the end it was all worth it) :)