Please Answer This One Folks - Thanks! :D
@simplegurl1969 (324)
United States
October 25, 2007 6:21am CST
If you could go change just ONE thing in your life, what would that ONE thing be & WHY? For me?? I would have chosen to NOT have been born. What say you????
7 responses
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
25 Oct 07
Hey, simplegurl...I wonder why you said that? Has something happened to you?
Anyway, I don't think I wanna change anything in my life, 'coz even though I've made mistakes and I have weaknesses to tame still, they're the things that make me who I am right now. Life's GREAT even though it has its ups and downs and I'm grateful that I was born here. :-)))
@simplegurl1969 (324)
• United States
25 Oct 07
Hello. Yes, but I'd rather Not discuss it here. Let's just say that I've been very sad and preyy Depressed for far too long. I also found out that You really can Not rely on friends, because they will always leave you in the end, that's exspecailly true in my case. In short....Disalusionment of Life, among other things, but with that said, I actually do want to thankyou for replying! I also want to wish you and your family a Great halloween too. :)
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
25 Oct 07
Hi, simplegurl!
Yeah, I felt that you were disilussioned. I hope you'll get over the depression and find hope again, though. ;-D
I've got 6 close friends who still keep in touch with me and we're still good friends. Maybe you'll find them later on. :-))) Just NEVER give up on life! There are still good people out there! ;-D
HAPPY HALLOWEEN to you! We don't really celebrate it here, though he he he...but THANKS! ;-D
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
I wish i were a less mean sister. I mean, i would have treated my brothers like a friend.
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@simplegurl1969 (324)
• United States
25 Oct 07
Well I do know that it sure can be difficult at times to be a good sister or brother, and sometimes is can be very difficult to be a good sister or brother to your other sibling, so I actually do understand this. My advise? Keep all your siblings close, but also try to learn to keep a little distance awy from them too, so you won't get hurt anymore. Hopefully that will help, other there's soe type of deciet that happening or going on, in which the case changes. And if that happen's you go your own way. (That is also from past personal experience.) Anyway, I would like to thankyou in person for Posting your reply here and I also wanted to say that I hope that you and your family (even you sibling) to have a Safe and Happy Halloween too! :)
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
25 Oct 07
"I would have chosen to NOT have been born"
Ya know, from a very young age in my childhood right up to just a few yrs back I would have (and did) say the same thing...and meant it every time...these days though, in spite of all the crap, pain, trauma, hardships etc that I've gone through and still do in life, I dont feel that way anymore....Life is a trip..sometimes a really crappy one but even out of the most horrible experience comes beauty...think of a lotus - it fights its way through the muck and mud and blossoms above it a gorgeous flower - to me that is life...
If I could change one thing....well I wouldnt change anything really...My life is as it should be and though its been rough mroe often than not and i've endured some seriously horrid things, I'm a strong, intelligent, loving woman/mother/wife and friend and I couldnt ask for anything different ;-)
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@simplegurl1969 (324)
• United States
25 Oct 07
I actually saif that because I meant it, and to me, I honestly do feel as if I may have chosen a bad mistake just by coming down to this world to live, exspecially if I don't really have a life. The irony is, I would have Never come down here had I actually known how horrible that some people were going to treat others & I have already decided that I will Not be coming back here to this hell holw ever again. And that is all I'll say about it. Anyway, I would like to thankyou for your response. And I hope that you and your family will taake great care of yourself too.
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
29 Nov 07
Getting married the first time. I should have thought about my life and how to get it better not trying to leave home with this guy I didn't know very well. I knew him for 4 months then I wanted to marry him. I thought I was in love with him and I wanted to get away from out of my mothers house. She was so controling and to me I felt like she was mentally abusing me. now I am divorced the second time in my life and again I should have thought and got to know him better before saying yes. he abandoned us, and that tells me I didn't know him that well and I didn't truly consider my life and my new baby at the times life.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
well if i could change something then that would be my childrens surname. i am married with their dad and of course they carry his surname. i am now a single parent of four kids 7 years now and i wish i can change their surname to mine.
@simplegurl1969 (324)
• United States
25 Oct 07
Hum, that sounds like a really good answer to me! Now id Only good karma would actually come back to me....then I would be very happy! Thanks for posting and I hope that you will take care of yourself for now too! :)
~ HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!! :D ~
