Seperation Anxiety??

My son went through a stage where he was kind of like that. What we did, was leave him in the same room as my husband, but while I was still home. For instance, I would be in the kitchen cooking, while they played in my son's room with the door closed. If he asked for me, my husband would tell him I was in the other room. We started out only a few minutes at a time. Now he doesn't even blink an eye when I leave him with Daddy. Leaving him with anyone else is another story completely, though.

This is exactly why my mother had herself and my grandmother raising me from the day I was born. My grandmother practically raised me, she was my second mother, and so I never went through seperation anxiety with them.

May be instead of leaving your child at home with him, try taking her out along with you and your hubby to a park and let her mix with other toddlers, father can play with her ball games or just be on swings with her. that will help the child overcome her fear of him. do not force her let her approach him on her own free will and try leaving her with him for only five minutes the slowly increase time. play peek a boo kind of games with her that will help her to let go of you. just make sure you are there for her even beofre she starts getting anxious about you missing. slowly ease her in to seprating from you for longer and longer periods- she will do fine.

Children always get used to one parent more than the other in that age, that is what i have observed. My daughter clings to me all the time and though her dad is willing to do everything, she won't go to him if I am around, but if I am not there, she will stay with him for some time. You should start with leaving your baby with her father for 15 minutes or so first and than see how it goes.