Will you choose the one you love or the one that loves you?

October 27, 2007 4:35am CST
my friend asked me the same question few days ago.she said that two guys proposed to her recently,she doesn't know which one she should choose.she loves her boyfriend but he lies to her all the time,and she found out he was dating with another girl a month ago.the other guy treats her so good,and be there for her anytime she needs comfort.they've been good friends for eight years.i think she should choose the one that loves her.could anyone give any suggestion?
5 responses
@ayou82 (3459)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
The one that I love. For me it doesnt matter if he dont love me back the way i want it to be. Coz for me love can wait..its not worth trying to force someone to love you back or reciprocate the love your showing..you need to be patient and see the wonders of love.
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
28 Oct 07
This shouldn't even be a question! I mean who in the world would want to marry/accept proposal from a person that lies to them all the time and was dating another person on the side?! (I'm assuming that wasn't agreed on by the two in question) Nice bleak future there if your friend ends up marrying that person -_- And no she shouldn't expect the boyfriend she "loves" to change just because she got hitched to him. That is foolish!
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 07
It's no doubt anymore. I will choose the one who treated me good.
@JowJie (271)
• Philippines
27 Oct 07
I will go to the one that I love. I think its unfair to go to someone that loves you if you cant return his love. Unless I fall in love with him too in the end.
• Philippines
27 Oct 07
I suggest she goes with the guy who loves her. There's no other happiness than having a guy who adores you like you're the only woman in the world. My boyfriend's like that. I didn't really love him at first but its not really difficult to fall for a guy who adores you. Even if I see lots of great looking guys around, I'd tell myself, no guy can love me like my boyfriend does. She'd be happier with someone who loves her than with a guy who does not give her much importance. Good luck to your friend! Hope she learns to see things objectively.