An overused word or phrase that sends you over the edge?

@worldwise1 (14885)
United States
October 28, 2007 10:14pm CST
I have lived through more "catchy" words and phrases than I even care to remember. The current word that drives me crazy is "hot." This expression has become overused to the point that I wish it was eliminated from the language. Everything is "hot" when it rarely is at all. I admit that I have become caught up in this type of frenzy on some occasions, but as soon as I am aware of it I will cease to use the expression. Do you have a pet peeve overused expression?
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@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
29 Oct 07
This discussion is awesome! My computer is awesome and so is the sunset. Oh did I mention my hubby is awesome and the cats are awesome too. I hate the word awesome. It is so overused and not very often do I find anything really awesome.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
29 Oct 07
Why whywiki...you're awesome! I hate that word too...LOL
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
29 Oct 07
I think I get your drift, whywiki, lol. I wonder if people really know the meaning of the word "awesome." It should not be so carelessly used.
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• United States
29 Oct 07
Whatever Whywiki, I think your computer might be, well whatever, and if your hubby is so awesome and your cats then whatever :(
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
29 Oct 07
I cannot stand the whatever!! phrase. It drives me totally crazy. I just want to reach out and smack whoever says it. It sounds so disrespectful and uncaring.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
29 Oct 07
It is one of the rude expressions, Thoroughrob! Most people say it due to a lack of anything better to say.:)
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• United States
29 Oct 07
Mine is lol in emails and other abbreviations.I can understand if you are texting someone and you don't have enough room, but here where you can and should write everything out why use it?Maybe I am too old to understand. I prefer the best English you can write. It is sad when I can understand posts written by people learning English as a second or even third language better than posts written by English speaking Americans.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
31 Oct 07
I use "lol" to denote light heartedness and amusement because it's sometimes difficult to convey these things while typing. I do it to assure people I'm smiling and trying to be amusing myself. I agree with the over use of other abbreviations though.
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• United States
30 Oct 07
I have seen it used when nothing funny has been written.
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
I'm afraid I will have to plead guilty to using that one myself, sarah. For me it just seems easier than continually saying something is amusing to you.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
29 Oct 07
I have a few that drive me batty...."awesome" Oh, that is so Awesome. Yuk...Then there's the famous.."you know?" or "You know what I mean?" Uh, no...I don't know what you mean. LOL Have you ever notice that some people put a "you know" after every few words?
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
29 Oct 07
I think, pyewacket, that people just don't bother to become acquainted with the language enough to use it properly so they just take the lazy way out. I had a male adult relative when I was a kid who always said, "I mean," before every sentence. I used to count the number of times he would say it during a conversation with my uncle.:)
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@Amberina (1541)
• United States
29 Oct 07
The one that sticks out in my mind is "Don't have a cow!" I always hated that saying they would really be shocked if I just had a cow because they said that...darn kids. LOL. -Amber
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
29 Oct 07
I think we owe the honor of that inane expression's popularity to Bart Simpson, Amberina. As if someone could actually have a cow, lol.
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@hillock (749)
• Qatar
29 Oct 07
I have one i always says "crap"! like when im mad or very happy! it becomes a habit i guess. like i used it even if its not appropriate at all!
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
Don't feel alone, hillock, because we all have them.(:
@hillock (749)
• Qatar
30 Oct 07
a consolation i guess! hehehe!
@AmbiePam (86003)
• United States
29 Oct 07
Yes, there is one word that I wish would be retired in the context it is frequently used. It's 'sweet.' Something unusual happens, and it's sweet. Something good happens, and it's sweet. No, no! Sugar is sweet, not scoring a basketball goal, LOL.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
I think that is part of the attraction to some of these words, AP, the fact that they are used totally out of context.
29 Oct 07
I'm with Pyewacket on this one hun, awesome *runs screaming*
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
Maybe we should compile a list of words that would make good substitutes for these overworked ones, recycledgoth.
@anniepa (27955)
• United States
29 Oct 07
BASICALLY, LIKE, YOU KNOW, what an AWESOME idea for a discussion. It's just, YOU KNOW, so HOT! So, LIKE, YOU KNOW, you BASICALLY don't like the way I talk? Well, YOU KNOW, WHATEVER... Seriously, this was a good idea for a discussion. All of the above have long driven me crazy, along with some others here I see! On "Beat the Press" on Dan Abrams Live on MSNBC the other night they showed a clip from Star Jones new show where she said "basically" about 20 times. I think some people don't really realize how often they say something and I know personally I would like to have it pointed out to me if I were doing it. YOU KNOW, sometimes we LIKE don't know we're doing it...LOL!!! (I had to add that one! LOL is one I do sometimes use online but I generally don't like to use those abbreviations, I guess I'm just too old! I could've used alot of those annoying words in that last sentence too, couldn't I? Annie
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
LOL! You've got that right, anniepa. The words or phrases become so much a part of us that it is almost impossible to break the habit.
@creematee (2810)
• United States
29 Oct 07
OH, my kids use "Whatever" all the time. This drives me bonkers. What's worse... my 3 year old picked it up, and now uses it! ARRRRRRGGH!!! I now know how my parents felt when we would imitate Steve Martin's "EXCUUUUUUUSE ME!"
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
Well, that was a nice "blast from the past," creematee! I used to really get a kick out of saying that.
@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
30 Oct 07
I don't know why, but I hate the phrase Pet Peeve. Weird, huh?!
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
I don't think it's unnecessarily weird, gwendovere. It's just something that rubs you the wrong way.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
30 Oct 07
Oh sure....that is the phrase that gives me the willies! Oh sure....oh sure. Why not just answer yes? LOL
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
The list just keeps growing, jillhill. I think perhaps they need to bring some words out of retirement that I have not heard for a long time.
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
29 Oct 07
The current expression that sends me over the edge is: "We'll see." I often ask my hubby about something and that's one of his standard answers he he he...I LOVE planning ahead of time, so that's one thing that bugs me, but I'm learning to get used to it and I'm learning to be more spontaneous that way, too he he he...
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
Yeah, ailema, as in "Don't bother me with that right now." It is a much nicer way to say it though.
• Finland
30 Oct 07
Yeah, that's true...it's a much nicer way of saying it he he...
• South Africa
29 Oct 07
here is a couple sweet divine nice awesome
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@AmbiePam (86003)
• United States
30 Oct 07
Ugh, I hear divine on TV all the time.
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
30 Oct 07
I must admit that I am surprised to find "divine" listed among your objections, cfourie. It isn't a word that I hear being used a lot.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Oct 07
I agree with you there, 'hot' being the most overused, profaned word these days. I would like to add 'cool' and 'awesome' that are used indiscriminately and foolishly these days. About my pet peeve? may be my friends will able to tell you. Me personally think, I hardly have any pet words that i use for anything and everything.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
31 Oct 07
"Hot" is not a word I hear much, or feel the need to use...thank goodness, I would hate that. "Cool" is a word I'm familiar and comfortable with. An expression I absolutely detest is "OMG!!" both the words and the letters. I know it sounds prudish of me but this sounds really blasphemous, especially coming out of the mouth of young girls/women. I think this is terribly over the top and over used.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
31 Oct 07
That word "whatever" I think it's fairly useful in some ways. But if someone uses it with attitude that makes you itch to smack 'em then it's not good. My daughter spoke that word to me recently ...with attitude, in the hearing of her 12 and 9 year old girls. I was so ashamed of her.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
30 Oct 07
Remember when it was "valley girls" days and everything was like totally! I hated that and I am glad that we don't hear that much anymore. One of the newer ones is whatever. My kids like to use that when I am mad at them and yelling and it drives me crazy!!
@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
30 Oct 07
i would have to say whatever,you know what i mean,and the last one would be as well.i hear that so much and it just irritates me sometimes.