if you have a chance to pick on how to die..........
By roniroxas
@roniroxas (10559)
Philippines
October 29, 2007 3:18am CST
do you want a sudden death or gradual death?
my aunt died just 2 weeks ago and before she died she noted her sons on what to do. what clothes to wear.... etc.
do you like a sudden death or you like something gradual so you can also tell you love ones some few words.
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@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
hi roni.I've had a conversation about this with my husband. I told him that if I were to die, I prefer it in a way that I have the extra time to say goodbye to my family. Just like what your aunt did. I much prefer to go that way.
Sometimes when I pray to God, I always ask Him to not let me die without even saying goodbye or having the last chance to see my family,especially my son.
My husband told me that usually those slow deaths are accompanied with pain and suffering. He asked me if I can bear those things. And I said yes. If that will only mean that I can have the last few moments with them.
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@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
that is such a sweet response you have there. your husband is right that the gradual deaths mostly has pain. unbearable pain. thanks for the response
